Help with Life

Hippie seriously don't kill youself.You need to tell us whats really going on in order for us to help you.Or if you don't want the whole forum to know about your problem PM the people that you believe will help you.Just please don't kill youself.

 

my problem is that I am always stressed out, I never have time for some me time, and when I fined some time something always ruins it....

 

Have you tried asking your care taker if you can go out somewhere?

 

Are there any woods or private areas near where you live? Somewhere you can go to be alone and think? Do you have a back yard that is quiet at all? Sometimes other people around always there can get on anyone's nerves and make people stress out because there is no private time. If you can find a place that's quiet, maybe take a book or something and go there but let someone know where you are in case they need you. You may have to take a few trips to feel your calm return but it might help if you can just get away for at least bits at a time.

And how are you today, Hippie? Doing any better? Thank you for helping others despite your own problems. That's very cool of you to do.

 

Yeah well i've been better and i'm talking with the person that I had said earlier.

 

Cool, I hope that things work out for you. I'm glad the person is now available to speak with.

 

That is by far the shortest thing i've ever seen typed by you o.o

 

It's -one- of the shortest things, lol. The shortest was a 3 word sentence in Spam Zone. I apparently have to keep track of these things. ^_^

 

oh, right

you see

if you need to be alone.....

umm, go to the bathroom?

im sure no one will follow you there.....

or try to find a nice place, not inside your home, like repliku said.

when, i needed to be alone, i went to the back of my school under the shade of a big tree , where no one bothered me

and the sun felt warm , but the breeze was really good

if you can find someplace similar, im sure that would help.

 

Yeah, it's great that you've been feeling better. You seem like a nice person who deserves better than what you've had to put up with. Thanks for your comment earlier, I appreciate it.

People are the only thing in the world that can help if you've got a problem. I'm naturally a very solitary, quiet and introverted person, so I usually try to work things out on my own. But if you've got a real problem, your friends and family are the only ones that can help get you through it. I know it sounds cheesy but it's true so...

 

^^ Hello there!!

Is there anything I could do during this long break of summer, aside from trying to find my own space without other members of my family intruding...... (I have no school till september...)

:poke: Its like my mom wants me to be her personal secretary... But I want my own freedom and joy, not spending it by sitting next to her...


Until the fateful day my exam results come in, and she decapitates me... That scares me... Her attitude to my exam results...

 

Maybe call up some friends?



WHOO I FEEL SO REFRESHED TODAY!!!!!!!!!!!

 

That's great!

By the way, Chεrry, have you talked to your mother about this? If you haven't, I think you should. You know, just give a reasonable explanation for why you need space. *Hippie Jesus* gave a good idea already of calling friends, too.

About exam results. I'm sure your mother wants to scare you into always getting good test results. Most parents do that with the way they freak out about your grades. However, my parents no longer do that because they know that I know the importance of them and what relation they have to my future and what I'm going to do. Perhaps if you explain that you know the importance of exam results to your mother, maybe she'd understand or believe you?

 

I know how it feels. I almost was deisowned when she saw me get a C in my school class. I believe she's just scaring me just to get better scores on the tests and study more. Don't worry and just try hard!

 

I could use some help. There's this girl I like, but I think she likes some "cool" kid who makes fun of me. The girl and I are sumwhat acuaintainces, but I think Im moving out of town. Anyways, Im realy unpopular and everyone thinks Im a gay ******e cause of my MD. Any advice?

 

Yes! I knew I wasnt' alone here! That's what people think of me too. Unpopular and a ******. Well I'd just ignore them and if they push it, I then start a fight but only to show them who's the boss around the county.

 

My dad told me to do that. I'm a wuss unless Im realy mad! Then I turn into the Hulk, though not as green :wink:

But I don't want to fight it out. Violence creates violence and bad feelings.

 

Well good luck then.

 

well i have this friend we usually get along but when she has other friends over besides me she likes to show off and make fun of me i try to get along but she just makes me mad because she thinks she's cool i don't know if i should stop hanging out with her or what she's okay when she's just around me but not when she's around other people i want to stop hanging out with her but her sister is nice and she is one of my friends but if i want to hang out with her sister i have to hang out with her too so should i just stop being friends with her or what please help me!!!!

 

Dude, try telling her bout the problem. If she doesn't stop, then ditch her.