Help with Life

...alright then. Later and don't kill yourself.

 

I know this is none of my business and all but... Please don't do whatever it is you were planning. My friend killed himself about 2 years ago, so I would know. There are other ways of solving whatever problems you're going through, and there's a solution to every problem. No matter how bad you are feeling now, you can't to it to the people that care about you. Why? Because the misery and pain you inflict upon them if you do will be an infinite number of times worse than how bad you're feeling now. And they can never recover from that. You can, however.

 

ho hum

I'm very sorry to hear about a friend of yours passed away from killing him/herself.

 

Killing yourself is never the answer, in my opinion. Just like everyone else in this world, I've had my tough times too. I don't know what your situation is, but I'm sure matters will eventually get better. If you feel like there's nothing you can do to improve your life (although I'm sure there is), just wait and something good may happen. Even try something to distract yourself, like coming on this site or playing a video game or participating in some other activity you enjoy. Focus on the good things in your life and not the bad, then it might make you feel a little more optimistic. :)

 

BRANDON. Talk to me through pm if you dont have AIM or MSN.
You're turning into me.

 

I think we'd be able to help you more if you actually told us what is so wrong that you would ponder killing yourself over. It's very hard to discern anything from what you are saying here and perhaps talking about it would help clear your mind, get it off your chest, and let us help you, since it does seem you are here asking for assistance and maybe don't really want to do such a brash thing as take your life. We are here to help you if you give us a go at it, but you can only get so much support if we have nothing to go off of.

We can basically only keep saying things like 'don't do that'. 'life is worth living' ..'you will be missed' etc but in the end, we aren't able to help you resolve some of the actual symptoms that are leading up to the disease of wanting to commit suicide. I hope you get what I mean because it is kind of serious and limiting your power over this and ours too. We aren't going to use anything against you and just want to see you get back up on your feet and not be so down that you'd consider taking away your life. It's hard to trust people, especially if you've been screwed over lately, but give us a shot.

The reason to not just go off and kill yourself is because the act is stupid. It isn't a brave thing to do. It is escapism and it's obviously not your time to go or you would have died by some other thing. There are some crappy things that happen in life, but it all isn't that way. In the end, you just have to learn to accept that there is suffering in life and it is just going to be that way. Accept it and then look for the better things and stop focusing on the negative that's just going to keep going on regardless. It is definitely not all there is out there. Look at how many people here are trying to reach out and give you a hand. Some of us have also thought of suicide at points in our lives but it really is not the answer. Things in life change and by focusing on all this desire to kill yourself and get out of life, you are pausing events that could change you and make you feel better about yourself. Don't let yourself give in to such things. Hang in there and if you want to talk, we're here for you and if you want to talk in PM, feel free. Just don't you do anything to yourself. You would seem to know it's wrong because you are here talking about it.

 

Okay, Hippie, think of it this way.

The downside of sharing your problems is that you release a bit more personal info than you would like on the internet. I can accept that. But if you do end up killing yourself, it will not matter. And if Repliku can help, then you may see sense. Then you can take it from there. But overall, internet safety is not that important if you have a potential killer always with you.

I cannot give much advice, I do not feel like I am able to.

Just remember, if you're considering doing something like suicide, there is no downside to trying to seek help. Reputation smeering? It will be worse/doesn't matter if you are dead. Internet safety? I don't think if a few people know details of your life will matter if you kill yourself.

Just open up, you will either change your mind, and feel slightly foolish, or you won't change your mind.

 

Look people I can't just spit everything out and now i'm prepared and I think i'm gonna do it.

Thanks guys but yeah...and Xendran HOW THE F*CK DID YOU FIND OUT MY NAME!?!?!

 

Do you REALLY want help? We can't help you if you won't tell us! Plus it may feel better to let it all go. Seriously, suicide is your LIFE. You kill yourself and you're gone, forever, no second chances. And even though everything bad going through your head right now may dissapear (in your eyes), everything good that'll happen in the future never will. Plus, if you kill yourself, you're leaving behind everyone who cares about you and everyone who cares or who you care for will be affected too. It's not just you. Think it through >< seriously.

 

I have and I think i've decided....I have the note on my bed.........and the only person I can think who can help is 200 miles away......and is also asleep.....

 

Then can't you wait for that person to wake up at least? Jeez. It gets better, it really does. I'm not just venting and trying to make you feel better, I really know how hard it gets and how badly you want to end it but it gets better. If it's the worst it could possibly be for you right now, it has no where to go but up. And if it's not the worst, then you should think about how bad it really is.

 

wow a broken record "it gets better when it gets bad don't worry" BULL SH!T YOU CAN"T CHANGE THE PEOPLE AROUND ME, YOU CAN"T CHANGE AMERICA, YOU CAN"T CHANGE THE WORLD!!!!!!!!!!!

 

No, I cant, and I'm not trying to...I didn't say don't worry. I'm not about to go on for 40 pages talkin about how much sh.t I've gone through but you're really makin it impossible to relate or even remotely understanding where you're coming from when you don't say what's going on.

 

It's to hard to say and go into full detail.

 

You dont have to pour out your feelings or write an essay or anything. Why not just provide the basis of the problem? Anything I say isn't gonna matter because I can't relate to what you're going through because you won't say anything about it.

 

Fine I'll make it very breif

1. Brittany
2. Family
3. Social

 

Look, at this point these people here are trying to help you have some commonsense and rationality. You don't have any reason to get mad at them for concern about you. Matter-a-fact, why are you not more grateful that some people actually care and hate to see you do the most stupid thing you could possibly do to yourself?

If you are angry, which no doubts you are, then why don't you tell us the source of the anger instead of getting mad at those trying to assist you? If you cannot, that's fine, but then there is nothing anyone can do for you and so if you won't let us help, why are you telling us that you are going to kill yourself? So we all know and you leave your mark? Come on, man! Think here. You have people here willing to listen to whatever but all you keep saying is you are going to do it no matter what and won't let us in. It's up to you what you do because we of course have absolutely NO POWER to come over there and sit down with you and get to the root of things. Please try to close your eyes, breathe in and breathe out slowly and let some tension go. This is not worth it and we're hoping you'll come to see that.

Broken records or not, people care. Don't just shut us out and leave us powerless to this. You aren't feeling well at all. We don't know the reasons why. We don't have to when we say just don't do it. It's literally all we can say now.

Is Brittany an ex-gf or something?
Is your family abusing you?
I take it people around you make fun of you and you feel you don't fit in?

Don't give up.

 

...Okay, you're having problems with a girl, your family, and your social life...?

 

yes you can, just wait you will see life gets better and worth living, my god why would you want to kill yourself don't do it change the way you live, change your friends, and don't kill yourself, if you die i swear to god i will be so F*** pissed of, i know what it is like i went through it, and i got through it don't kill yourself rip up the note have a nice long sleep and go see you friend of relitive, stop thinking negativly OK dude kill yourself you will never see the light,"thou shall not murder or commit suicide, or thou shall not go to heaven", thats what got me through it thinking of one of the ten comandments, look all i am saying is don't kill yourself, and you can change everything in just a few minutes, don't kill yourself
thats what mine was about i had a new stepdad the girl or my dreams dumped me and all of my friends hated me, i got a new GF, i got used to my stepdad, and i got new friends
dude it is just plain stupid to kill yourself do it now and suffer the wrath of God

 

okay....

the wrath of god thing.....not helping.....

anyways

please do not kill yourself

these things will pass

the girl thing....well cant really go on much with a name

your family, there is no reason for you to talk to them, just be there like its fine

what exactly is wrong with your social life?