Help with Life

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  1. kitty_mckechnie I want to hug you like big fuzzy Siberian bear!

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    Simply because of my beliefs & that i actually go to church ever Sunday. Most people in my school never go to church. I was simply just a target for them to have a laugh, they saw that i was the only one & used that for their pitiful fun.

    Fate if you were popular why did people make fun of you?
     
  2. Cia (ノ◕ヮ◕)ノ*.✧*.✧

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    I guess you don't have it that bad since your friend is just grounded. You shouldn't be made fun of. What is there to make fun of? Please don't be suicidal, either. It's not healthy.

    I'll be your friend if you need one.
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    That's awful. They shouldn't do that. I have a feeling that they're all uneducated if they pick on you for that reason. -_-
     
  3. kitty_mckechnie I want to hug you like big fuzzy Siberian bear!

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    Yeah you gots loads of friends here. :D
     
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    well, it's hard to explain. thay make fun of me becase I'm not like mega popular just kinda does that help? I know that probably doen't make sesne.
     
  5. kitty_mckechnie I want to hug you like big fuzzy Siberian bear!

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    I'm guessing they just do it for fun, which is quite sad on their account. They outta do something better & more meaningful.
     
  6. Rawr King's Apprentice

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    yeah your right and maybe I'm too nice because I can't seem to tell people off
    also what really bugs is that noo ne even trys my RPG's anymore it sucks and makes me sad well I got to go see ya ^.^
     
  7. kitty_mckechnie I want to hug you like big fuzzy Siberian bear!

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    I just ignored them, showing that it didn't bother me. Even if they shouted stuff at me i didn't even look at them.
     
  8. Cia (ノ◕ヮ◕)ノ*.✧*.✧

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    Yeah, that's what I do if they start poking fun or teasing me.
     
  9. kitty_mckechnie I want to hug you like big fuzzy Siberian bear!

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    Have any of you ever been made fun of because of your intelligence?

    N' Fate what is your RPG?
     
  10. Kingdomhearts3forwii Merlin's Housekeeper

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    no im dumb plp donmt make fun of plp if there dumb but supposdely its cool to be dumb..
     
  11. Sanda Kingdom Keeper

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    Same. Its unbelieveable, and its completely unacceptable. So much for 'no child left behind'...


    Do you have friends who can help you? *^* What exactly happens, sorry if this is painful but we might be able to help if we know some more details-If youre uncomfortable discussing then dont;Im just thinking that itll be easier to give advice:o
     
  12. Antidote Façade

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    I've heard this saying a lot: "When someone is being really horrible to you, it's better to be horribly nice to them". Show that they don't phaze you with their snide remarks or bullying. If people come up to you and say stuff, just turn around and say, "okay, whatever", and just brush them off. Show that you're the better person and walk away. Also, try and keep your head up and smile more. Quiet people are usually picked on most, cos bullies see you as an easy target. Try and be more confident, try talking to people in your classes, like people you sit beside in a class that you don't hang out with. Attempt to get to know them, because not everyone can hate you.

    This wasn't for anyone in particular.. That's really the only help I can give for people who have problems with friends. Have any of you tried joining clubs? Like Basketball, Football, etc?

    I'd say the best advice I can give is to talk to people YOU like in your classes, who aren't one of the jerks obviously. Try get to know them better.
     
  13. Kingdomhearts3forwii Merlin's Housekeeper

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    thats VERY VERY true
     
  14. kitty_mckechnie I want to hug you like big fuzzy Siberian bear!

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    yup your best not to fight back with them, or else your in for a lot of pain.
     
  15. Sanda Kingdom Keeper

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    That is fantastic advice! You could maybe even make a KH club or something! :p
     
  16. kitty_mckechnie I want to hug you like big fuzzy Siberian bear!

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    Yeah a club for people who like to play games etc would be a good idea. Remember strength in numbers.
     
  17. Kingdomhearts3forwii Merlin's Housekeeper

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    yea u have no idea how popular i became from joing basketball. actually thats i became popular and won "most popular" in 8th grade.
     
  18. Sanda Kingdom Keeper

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    Haha awesome...I feel bad for you-its hard keeping up appearences, Ive tried:o I imagine KH is a real 'image' killer; dont know why though. Its an amazing game ^^
    Im not an outcast, and im well liked by everyone and popular amongst my own friends, but Im not popular. Luckily at my school it really isnt a popularity contest. In MS yah, but HS no.

    But yea, as kitty_mckechnie said strength in #s...So, get a big group of KH lovers togeher and you can overpower ANYone xDDD

    IDK if you guys cosplay at all, but, cons are a FANTASTIC way to meet new people. Working on costumes with friends is a great passtime as well...Plus, it wont kill respect people have for you-I tell my [please excuse this manerism] 'normal' friends about cosplay and theyre totally cool about it.
     
  19. Cia (ノ◕ヮ◕)ノ*.✧*.✧

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    ... now that's just dumb.

    I've never been made fun of because of my intelligence in a cruel and hurtful manner. But I have been made fun of my intelligence by my friends when I've made a dumb decision or remark or whatever it may be, ^_~'.

    Yeah, same here. Infact I'm going to a convention this weekend! :D
     
  20. Kingdomhearts3forwii Merlin's Housekeeper

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    really? cool! i would go to one but my dad would call me a ***, and evry1 else so why bother? anyuways tell me how it goes ok???
     
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