Help with Life

Hey! Same as our school. Friends, dates, or something else, they hug each other.

 

I see to much hugging and kissing at my school it's just not right

 

You also see girls that are pregnant.I feel sorry for them but also they should have known the consequences for sleeping with someone.

 

Okay that part doesn't exist in our school. I never saw a single girl in our school pregnant.

 

It's rare where I live but it does happen and thats sad and stupid

 

Have to agree with you Hippie. -_-;;

 

I wanna stay on but i'm getting tired from being on since I got home so i'm gonna go for now PEACE

 

When I first entered the school ,in 9th gradel.Probably the first 3 or 4 days I had already saw like 5 or 6 girls pregnant.Wow.

 

I'm surprised. Where do you live?

 

I live in California.

 

! Same as me! Which city?

 

I feel depressed.

Its like my heart is sinking deep into the ocean... But the thing is, I don't want to say why that is...

 

I feel depressed as f**k

its horrible
i know loads of ppl have probably got worse problems than me but ye i need to tell someone.

i recently split with my boyfriend who i was rly close to
i ended the relationship
when we were togther i told him something embarresing about me which i dont wanna say
then in school hes told everyone
nd everyone is constatly taking the piss nd i almost started crying in school the other day
i faked being ill today so i didnt have to go in
what shud i do sum1 plz help me!! :(

 

I'd probably go with instinct and at least be wary of her. Usually if you have a bad feeling about someone it's a sign that you should watch yourself.

There are many boys and girls that don't get boyfriends/girlfriends in school right away. You aren't that alone in that. Having said that, this guy may like you if he treats you different from other girls by hugging you and such, especially if he has a girlfriend and is doing it to you but not to others. He may be testing out the field because he may be getting bored with his girlfriend and find you interesting.

In the end you really have one of two choices which is to ask him why he hugs you and not other girls, or to just ignore it but if he pushes further to tell him that he has a girlfriend and that you won't play the middle ground. If he decides to drop her then, it's his choice but don't let yourself get caught as the girl stuck between two people if you can help it. You'd be blamed for their whole relationship falling apart and if he isn't happy with her he needs to do the right thing. He could just be hugging you because he thinks you are special and like a sister, but you'll either have to ask him to be sure where your position is with him or just put it in your head it's that way until he shows some other sign. I wish you luck and hope you'll be alright with whatever you find out.

I'm sorry to hear you are depressed. I hope you feel better and whatever is wrong you can sort through it. If you want to tell us, feel free to, but if not, you have some support here as much as we can give.

Well, how bad was this secret? Kids at school can be rotten and overdo things, trying to forcibly embarrass and humiliate others. It's the way school is at times. Whether it's really bad or not though, you've got to hold yourself up high. It's a part of your life and we all do shameful or embarrassing things. Accepting those and not letting others take a fact of our lives to twist to their benefit to hurt us is a big part of growing up.

Breaking up sucks, but I can see why you did it. Does he talk to you at all now or seem to want to get back together? Sometimes people let things slip they shouldn't. If he did it to hurt you, that is not right and since I'm not sure which it is and where his heart lies in the situation it's difficult to say what to do about him. I do hope things get better for you but tough it out and take it as a learning experience if you can. Sooner or later those kids will forget about this if you don't make that big of a deal, keep with your friends and explain things.

 

Hmmm. It could be the depressed disorder. If you feel sad without a reason, then you are alone. You feel alone without anyone to know you. Dont worry. If you get people like us, then you'll feel better soon.

Just ignore the comments. People treat me like a little kid and then I decided to ignore them and if they threatened, I would threaten back by pushing them.

 

Well I came home bleeding today =D

 

Oh what now?

 

Lets say I had the fists the other kids had the knife.

 

Ouch. What happened then?

 

I walked home after I nailed the kid in the head then the kids ran away after seeing him on the ground after about 5 min. of bleeding and waiting for the kid to get up he got up and I shook hands cuz I hate being the jerk...he pulls the knife out and cuts my wrist and walks off....I decided not to go after him so I walked him still bleeding.....