Help with Life

Nvmd. I'm guessing you didn't have a close relationship and it does NOT have to do with sleeping. >_<;;

I guess you want a bf right now. You feel hurt because you want someone to love now right?

 

You don't have to be in love to kiss somebody.You just have to really like them.

 

Umm, no... I'm way too young... O_o

And... that's... *sigh*... probably true... <_>

 

yea I understand. I feel the pain also. I'm freaking 15 and never got a single gf in my life. -_-;;

I g2g now. I'll try to help you out if you're still in trouble tomorrow. Later.

 

Let me first start by saying this....this love that everyone talks about....perhaps some of you are lucky in getting what is a small glimpse of it....but I will stick to my theory....until you are old enough....wise enough...and devoted and committed enough....able to support yourself.....in my opinion you can not experience love...the word has been derived so much and miscontrued that now we even say we love food....so the word as lost its meaning in a lot of aspects...

Secondly...you mention that it could be jealously...or perhaps its not a feeling directed to your ex....but merely on your friend....the fact that someone would kiss someone without going out with them gets my blood boiling..mainly because I know people who do that....stick with a girl you like, be loyal to them, and don't do anything to make them uncomfortable in anyway....

Thirdly....there is a guy and girl out there for all of us....dating and courtship used to be something that would take place between a guy and a girl and was usually after they really liked each other THEN they started that stuff which usually lead to marriage....now we have people in the 5th and 6th grade "dating" and thinking they are in love.....

 

There's nothing wrong with not dating at your age. A reason I say this is not only because I don't date yet :roll:, (Yep, that's right! I'm not dating until I'm older.) but because many relationships at that age don't last long, and then it often breaks friends apart and makes alot of people feel bad in the end. I'm sorry if this makes anyone feel bad, because it doesn't always work like this. I'm just saying it's okay to wait until you're older to date. Edit: Along the lines of what wise Last of the Organization said.

I'm sorry, DestinyStar, about your problem. I know most likely you wouldnl't feel I couldn't give very good advice because I've never dated myself (Like I have repeated before...), but however, your friend likes this guy who you liked too (And maybe still like...?). Maybe this shows the similarity between you and your friend rather than anything bad. Maybe, like a friend, she understands you aren't dating him anymore but is oblivious that you would feel bad about it.

Edit:

I know! I really dislike that, actually.

 

I was planning on not dating until I was older, but I somehow got dragged into it... *sigh* Anyways, after she kissed him, she felt bad about it and broke up with her boyfriend out of guilt... So I'm not too made about it. Besides, she liked my ex right when she got here. But I think I'll stick with what my first plan was and wait until I'm older to date... Until then, I'll just stick to making new friends. ^^

Thanks so much, guys... :glomp:

 

Things still aren't changing and I still question to do you know.....

 

Alright. *Sigh* Let's see. They are kicking you, you don't have friends, and you tried to kill yourself?

 

If kicking you mean by fighting then yes.

I'm not sure if I can trust my current friends, sure there friends but I question if they reall are.

I attempted but I chickened out.

 

*Sigh* You really need some help. Go find a friend that has your point of view or somthing that you two have in common.

 

I've been waiting here for that person but I haven't heard from her in like a week

 

Who's "her"?

 

hey xephos, its never that easy....and you should know that

well, you are in a tight predicament

 

She shall not be named

 

Oh okay then. Hope she'll change your life forever.

 

She has but she makes it go up & down all the time so this is where the part comes in "Do I even trust her?"

 

Hmmmm. Ask her about her life and not too personal stuff and if she matches your kind, then you'll be able to half trust her and then ask her more questions about her life to increase the percentages of trusting her.

 

She already spills the beans about her self all the time and I was so open to her but now I'm not sure

 

Hmmm. you have a feeling that something isn't right around her?