Help with Life

I don't know If I'm good with holy stuff but I am a very religious Christain, so I can give it a shot if you want :3

 

*sigh...*

alright...
This isnt too bad of a problem. (Hopefully).

Anyway, I like this girl at my school. Prettiest face i've ever seen.
~Anyway, I've come to find to find that this girl is like me...(im friends with her on facebook)
we have a lot in common, like the same friends, and the same ideas about stuff.

problem: we share no classes...she barely knows my name...(even though it took all of my courage X.X to introduce myself to her).

problem 2: she may have lots of friends, but shes quiet like me...that means during free periods (times in which we dont have classes) shes away from people...

Im thinking i'll wait ti'' junior year to become friends...maybe hope for the best in terms of getting the same classes...I dont want to wait that long...what do I do?

 

easy, this is what i do whenever i want to befriend someone. find out somehow when she decides to go eat lunch. then go have lunch with her, just sort of like find where she sits, and be like "hey!" and just sit down and eat with her. i found that food makes ALOT of social situations less awkward

 

right. forgot to bring the third problem into play: theres this place in our school that most of my friends, including this girl, go to eat. In the last weeks of school, (which I'm in now) this place is turned into an art gallery. that means no eating there whatsoever. We also have a cafeteria but no one goes in there unless they r with a big group of friends...(explained above, she is not very...sociable? Ill say extrovertive...) so there really isnt a way of catching a lunch period with her unless I go on some quest to search the entire school for her...

 

well, then my explanation is if you want to be her friend then "put it out there". talk to her, just about casual stuff like "so, what are your grades?" "how are you today?".

 

my problem is that there is this guy i like and my friends said he used to have a crush on me, but now he dosen't and also he used to talk a lot to me and spent time with me but now he doesn't do any of that and it really hurts.He keeps saying that I am his best best friend but he doesn't act like it,and sometimes i keep thinking that I want to run away or die or something.

 

sorry but i REALLY think you're making too much of a deal out of this. he might be going through something and might not want to talk about it or maybe he's just not in the mood to talk.

 

KD, I too have a feeling like that. I too have a girl at school and we've known each other for a long time. She then loved someone else and now I act in school like my life is worth nothing. But remember this, in life, you will find out how interesting this world will be if you live long. That is my motto.

 

i am deeply in love with a girl who is kind, cute and very cunning, however i have a very good friend who likes the same girl. he is calm, quite cool and smart. i however am an a**hole, stupid, shy and ugly. i do however love this girl very much but i don't want to hurt my friends feelings. I do also understand that i shouldn't press the poor girl in a choice if i deeply love her, which i do....:(
what should i do...?
also, i am so shy that even being near her is difficult for me...
i'm hopeless huh...




i would also like to thank the people who recommended me to post here.
thank you everyone...

 

@ Kairi: A Boy isnt everything,go outside more.

@ Ambition:That is where I stopped..your friends on facebook,and she barely knows your name?..she must not like you a whole lot.

 

oh gee, thanks. so helpful. =_=

that was kind of why I said I had a problem.

And its not that she doesnt like me, she doesnt know me. Two different things.

...I think ill stick with what EvilMan said....

 

Well it looks like you need to have it all or nothing. AKA you have two choices. If she didn't like you but likes you as a friend, you can be her bff and not hurt your friends feeling. If she does love you....... I'm out then. -_-

 

First, what you should do is talk to your friend about your feelings. If he is 'calm, quite cool and smart', I bet that he'll find more girls later on, since most girls go for the cool and smart guys.
Also see if the girl even LIKES you. It would be quite messed up if you have done lots of things, all for her to tell you that she doesn't like you.
Start talking to her. Talk about schools, what you guys have in common. If you do get some hints about her liking you, then go from there. =3

 

thank you for the reply but that is a part of the problem. my friend is a great guy but some seem to try to stay away from him because he is very pale in the skin while his hair is dyed black. the girl however is very helpful and doesn't care about those things. i do know a little about her, like her favorite colour, what she does after school and stuff but i am far to shy even to respond to her if she would ask me something.
also, i have a worring tendency to flush near her... i hate it!!!! she is so sweet however...

 

Don't wait until your Junior year! Just take her out somewhere BESIDES school, like to a movie theater. It doesn't really matter if you guys have the same classes or not, just if you guys can actually meet each others before school, lunch, and/or after school. I'm actually dating a guy that goes to a different high school. We have about 8 months now... but never mind me! =3
If she is a quiet person, then that's great! You both have something in common! Just go ahead and learn more about each other a little more! *wink* wink*

Go talk to the guy! Maybe he needed a little space... That or he didn't feel a connection. :\ If you are going to talk to him, then first ask that he is acting like a 'best friend' would. Secondly, ask him if it's true about the whole 'liking you, but not anymore' thing. He probably has the answer.
XD It's (somewhat) normal for someone to feel like 'running away'. Just relax. If he's a lost cause, then look for other guys. There are probably millions of other guys out there that you will like, you just need to go out and look for them. =3

*cough* Introduce me to him *cough* :D Pretty much ALL my friends are like that.

Find something else to talk about. What she wants to do when she leaves high school, if she's going to college, which one? Just find out stuffs and look for something that you both like to do. Most girls like to be complimented, so compliment her now and then. For example: "Wow! Your really great at ----! I wish I was as smart like you!" or something related to that. :]

 

thank you and also you are a girl right...
so... is that what you usually like to hear or something like that?
i'm sorry if i sound strange.

 

X3 Yes, I'm a girl.

I don't really know if ALL girls like this, but I like it when people compliment me.
That means that I'm worthy enough to be known. :D
Also, it's quite cute when guys say that I'm 'cute' and how they say it! I'm a sucker at shy guys! XD
What I'm advicinf you to do is become close friends, then start flirting with her! Don't say any of those corny pick-up line (The most 2...).

 

I agree with her. That is how you start a relationship.

 

Hey guys I got a new problem

I finally got my kitten, but i promised him that i would take him everywhere with me but to school and a grocery store

My mom however won't let me at all D:
Like yesterday i wanted to take him to a ballgame of my sister's but she flat out said no

However she let me take him to show my friends before they left for the game, but.. I'm afraid to leave him out of my sight, even at school

I mean, yesterday, when i came home, my mom took him and hid him from me and i hate that D:
I mean, he's my kitten, i should decide what to do with him, and my brother won't leave the poor thing alone

Everytime i put him up my brother starts screaming and crying (spoiled brother)

 

Tell your mother to tell your brother to stop being a wuss and suck it up! I brb and will try to come back online to help you more.