Help with Life

to firenanaki: i have a friend that has the same problem and he is probably the nicest guy around.
talk to somone or have a hobby or something to calm your nerves and when they speak about nasty things just think of the most happy thing you'e done

 

I need help...

I'm feeling depressed. I started cutting my wrists... and I can't stop.
I saw a counsellor but it didn't change anything. All my friends are slipping away from me. And I thought about suicide one or two tomes.
Someone please help me..

 

that is NOT the answer to your problems. just don't do that, you're hurting yourself for no reason. cutting yourself wont' make your depression go away. hang out with your friends more, find a hobby you can do with them. and try to relax. and dont' be too hard on yourself, SOMETIMES its' ok to give yourself a break

 

I want you to listen to me sweetie... I've dealt with this before...

I was depressed because of my problems.. What i would do instead is, take a calm walk.. and about cutting yourself, i don't know what to tell you because i'm still trying to stop..

What i would do, is write your feelings down more. Thats what i've been doing.... Hang out with some friends, or call them up if you can't.
If you need any future help with this same problem, feel free to IM me, or send me a PM, I'll help you out sweetie <3

 

Hun, there's probably NOTHING I can say to you make you feel any better, but I'll blab some corney stuff you for a moment. Well, I don't know of your problems, nor do I know about how serious they are, but never... NEVER look to suicide for an answer. Anything and everything you face are only temporary. It really doesn't seem that way at the moment, but trust me.... “Suicide is a permanent solution to a TEMPORARY problem.†Don't you dare take the easy way out. Life is harsh and cruel, that's just the way it was designed, no life is perfect, and you got to fight for your rights, and your life... that is one of the purposes of life. Suicide is not worth committing, it really isn't worth it. (I say that after 2 attempts of my own, unfortunately... I now find it shameful that I wanted to take that path.)
At times like this, nothing will seem to help. You've ignored your counselor and chances are, you'll ignore my words too (that's the way depression works). The only one that can help you right now is ONLY YOU. But you have to find it in yourself to find the self support you're looking for. Hell, I'll even advise you to pretend that everything is okey, cope with it, deal with it, confront it and if it helps... YELL at it. Go punch something, let everything out. Sometimes keeping everything to yourself can cause this, so let it out. Cutting your wrist won't solve anything and you, hun, are only hurting yourself. No one else is being damaged by this, you'll suffer from its effects later. And when you look at those scars later in life, you'll only hate yourself more. I've got them to prove it. Do yourself a favor, and only for yourself, stop hurting your own body. If there's anger (sorrow, jealousy or whatever it is), then let it out on a punching bag... not on your arm, leg or wrists.
The probable chances of your friends slipping away from you might not be the fact, but the fact that you've distanced yourself from them (I could be wrong... unless your friends are total @ssholes.) Not all friends are permanent either, they come and go and the only ones that'll stick by you are the real friends who actually gave a f*ck about you. Even if you distanced yourself from him/her, he will still remain by your side, standing shoulder to shoulder and support you all the way through. A loss of a GOOD friend will hurt, everyone's been through that, including I, my mother, the boy/girl next you, the woman down the street, everyone. Why do you not look at the future and imagine a good future for yourself, and then tell yourself that you want to live that life before you die. Tell yourself that, that is the life you want to at least taste, touch and live. There so much more after you get through this part of your life... so much more. You DON'T want to end it before you even get to see a mere glimpse of it now, do you?

Heed my words... if it meant anything... anything at all to you. But it's your decision. I cannot give you the path you should walk, but I can indeed show it you.

 

Thank you everyone. I'm seriously trying to stop.

 

don't try, just DO IT

 

don't think i could've said that better myslef... O_O

tell yourself you WON'T.. then go through with it.

 

<3 =]

Its better to try that not to so you're making a better progress sweetie <3

Like i said, PM me or IM me if you need anymore help, or you can post here again <3

It takes courage to seek help than to not ask <3 =]

 

Okay, i'll PM you...

 

Okay... I have a bit of a problem... (and thank goodness it doesn't involve relationships for once XP)

So, I'm on my school's cheerleading squad. The problem: It's draining me. I have two games a week, in which I cheer almost nonstop for an hour and 30 minutes, and the rest of the week I have practice until 5:30 pm. By the time I get home, I have no energy and I just lay down or go on my computer, doing something that relaxes me. I never have any energy to do my homework, so i end up cramming it all in when I wake up in the morning. And sometimes, it doesn't get done, so I get in trouble. I can feel my grades slipping from my grasp, and I don't know what to do. I would quit the team, but my mom doesn't want me to (since I already quit softball this year) and the school year is almost over. What should I do? <_>

 

I put off homework alot. Your a very busy person so you have an excuse..i feel like it just doesn't matter, and i am very lazy. Try talking with your squad leader...inform them of your problem, in the end all will be at peace.

 

OK, tell your teachers to allow you extentions on your homework like say ask him/her for a day more than the rest of the class.Do your homework on your day of extension.Try and set up a study group for all the cheerleaders so as to get support from other cheerleaders.

P.S:I really hope you and your cheerleading friends are cute.I know it's irrelevent but i really REALLY wanted to say it.

 

I know cheerleaders and how they work and it must be very tiring. I suggest to do what the others said. It might work.

 

Well, I know for a FACT that none of my teachers are going to allow extensions... Also, I have a game two days a week, and then every other day I have practice... the only time I get off is on fridays and the weekends, so there can't really be an extension day. Also, one of my squad leaders is my writing teacher, and I'm not sure she'll do much to help. Grades matter more to me than anything else at school. I've managed to obtain straight A's all last year, but ever since this year, they've dropped down to Bs and I'm starting to worry. Yeah, I know a B isn't bad, but I get stressed out about grades and many other thing like that very easily, and i NEED to have good grades for my job and college. I'm really concerned about my future, and I want to do the best that I can, but it's really wearing me down.

... okay then... lol... I guess u could say we're "cute"... >>

 

First off .... i'm glad you're all cute
Second try the advice and if it doesn't work explain the stuff going on to your parents.For a good enterance start crying coming in home.Your parents ask "whats going on ????" and you reply "I got a B-" and tell them you weren't allowed extentions etc,etc.They side with you along with the other cheerleaders and there parents who try the very same thing (even though they mightn't have grades like you but are concerned). the school will come under pressure and either cave or you go to newspapers AND THE NEWS about inadaqisies in the school.Then they'll cave.

P.S:if it gets to the news please tell me which news channel it's on. if your cute and on on the news i want to see.To be honest i kind of admire your lust for a successful job and not follow the path of the boring and unsuccessful.

 

Daxma, this is help with life, not "I want to see how cute they look like" Section. -_-;;

 

yeah... Xephos is right... -_-

and I guess I'll give it a shot... I'm kind of nervous when it comes to talking to teachers, though. I'll try my best to explain the situation to them. However, if they don't understand, I'm pretty sure it still won't make it to the news... XD I just get worried easily about what's going to happen to me in the future. People always say "Live life to its fullest", but I think you should build up for a great future and get the work done that you need to nowadays.

 

I'm giving her the advice she needs and am merely adding some flattering comments.If she has a problem i'll stop,OK?
P.S:I'm kind of exagerating amn't i? LOL!

 

Okay then, I'm just reminding you about this place.