Help with Life

ok, i can say without a doubt that u need PROFESSIONAL help for ur family. no one here can help u with that problem.

 

Yeah..and to top it off, my dad is a hypocrite.

>.>

 

It'll take more than one day. Be patient with it...

 

yea, i know the type

 

Yep.

And I've been depressed lately.

Usually, I'm a very optimistic girl...

 

well....the only thing u can do w/o professional help is to spend alot more time outside the household. a change of atmosphere might help u some.

 

Well everybody has their bad times in life. You say you are optimistic normally but this sorta thing happens to everybody. But if I'm wrong then that means EvilMan_89 is right and take his advice. Hope it isn't serious.

 

I'm never optimistic. Strangely enough, everytime I try to be, it fails miserably and something bad happens. So now, I'm gona remain depressed and upset. Heh, don worry bout me.

 

My Problem

My problem is that I am unpopular.That is why I hate overrated characters like Axel.My friends are all boys and not girls.My other problem is that my aunt is giving birth to my cousin.I keep on asking my mother what gender is the baby and she kept on answering....I'll tell you later.I have a bad feeling that it is a boy.

I don't want to be the youngest forever!I cannot let my brother be 3rd youngest and me being the youngest granddaughter at age 14 right?I'll never get any respect.I am also a pessist and a sadist.

 

I think it a bit rash to assume you won't get respect from your family, especially since it's family. In my opinion you seem to be blowing that out of proportion. If you're the only girl in your family, it's just the cards you've been dealt and in the end it won't mean much the older you get. As for know the gender of your cousin, if your mom doesn't want to spill the beans you can always wait 9 months and just be surprised. Something as miniscule as that shouldn't be a bother to you. As for being "unpopular" school tends to be detestably black and white for most people, unless you're privileged to find one where such trivial things don't matter. In pretty much every case the popular kids are ******bags and will end up bagging your groceries in the near future despite being cool and having all the great parties where the kids just drink until they vomit. trsut me when I say you're better off not mixing with them. the first few years highschool are mostly going to be teh same until around 3rd and 4th year. By that time people are sort of grown up and the ******bags are seen for who they are.

 

My problem is kinda religon based.

Ok, so I am a huge christian or thats how it ust to be but things change for me. ok.

Sit down cause this may take awhile.

See my mom has this thing wrong with her. It is a mental Illness and she thinks things that arnt true, such as cameras being in shower, or in tv, or computer. etc..
She also thought my dad cheated on her with next door nieghbor, and tried to kill the next door nieghbor. So she went to hospital. She is also bipolar and her emotions switch like crazy. Like one time I was watching tv and she came upstairs and said "WHAT ARE YOU DOING? She got all mad and I said nothing, then she started cussing and yelling, and my brother Chris came in and asked what was going on. I told him she just started yelling at me, and she was all "You'r lieing, you'r lieing son. And your going to hell, and I was just becoming a christian then so it hurt. and she is in the state of depression alot, and has tried to kill her self several times. She has been to the hospital for months and months at a time, and she often uses this little kid like voice, like she is 7. So It anoys me, but I still love her....but its hard.

My dad is a drunk. Hes a great guy and everything, but he doesnt drink all the time, but last week he came home very drunk and he said he hated me and never wanted to see me again cause I threw out his beer. but he is trying to quit now...but we were really worried about him that night. He never took off and got drunk without at least calling. We though something happend to him so I was pretty mad that he didnt at least call...

My younger brother (Chris) who is like 16 is hanging out with the wrong people. My wonderful younger brother has started drinking smokeing, never home, and as a younger brother I worry over him ya know?

My younger brother (Ryan) is becoming more and more like chris...plus he is going through the phase you go through at 12.

Ok my problem. I normally depend on God to get me through certain problems with my family, but laitly I just lost a lot of faith. I know he is there and I know he didnt leave me, and I know he is watching over me, but this is HARD to get through. Last week my mom thought she was pregnet and was rushed to the hospital, and she can't get pregent again...also I just feel empty. I am trying to start going back to church but I just can't. I don't trust the people at church anymore, and I just have school problems and trying to raise money for Peru and I just feel like I wanna give up sometimes. So yeah. Thats my problem...

 

well.....i say....don't depend on God, from my experience He/She doesn't seem to like ppl who keep bothering them. but just talk about ur probelems with other ppl, it should be better than typing them

 

With religion-based family issues as deep as that, I'd not come here for help. There's outside sources that will deal with spouse, child, and family abuse better than us. They should also be used.

 

yea! you said it better than i did

 

I know there are other places to talk to people about this, but I thought I would share it here anyway. besides...I already know that I can get barley any hope on this. Unless you have lived it, ya couldn't help me....so I will stop wasting time posting it. Thanks for advice.

 

My problem is most like...a familly problem...Well my little sister and I are allways nagging about stupid things...its like one moment we're nagging and another moment we're playing and laughing with each other...but my parents always interfer...and they always blame me...I'm the guilty one most of the time but...the real problem is that my parents always end up nagging with each other because of us...I feel sad and guilty about that...I'm afraid they divorce...My lilttle sister always shouts at them when they start nagging...Its like she can't take it anymore...Can anyone help with this? :o


Anyways...great thread! Its excelent! :)

 

then don't fight, choose your battles.

 

I'm frustrated......
I don't know why but everytime I get out I want to run or kick somebody.....I'm not sure if this is pent-up anger towards the world because I still am timid around people.
Also, I'm really sensitive so I cry and then I get mad easily.....
And I have a terrible headache.
What am I feeling.
I'm really confused....

 

i'd say it could be frustration, puberty, or depression. and pent up feelings usually means ur not being honest with ppl. the timidness is also the clincher in saying that ur not being honest. just tell ppl how u feel, make friends and be yourself. and have fun

 

Very well put. This is really the best thing to do. Just be your self and there will be people that like you and people who don't like you. That's how life is. And of course what I do with pent up anger is kill as many things as I can in video games. Video games help me get a lot of anger out. Try pwning some heartless or nobodies.