Help with Life

Someone has already told me to watch Bambi, it has not affected me one bit.

 

It did not work, I read a couple jokes that several people found funny, but I did not (I got them, but they were not funny to me).

 

it's no big deal. u just gotta learn to get a "feel" for urself and rediscover urself. do wat comes natural to you and be honest, that's wat i did

 

That post made no sense.

I am watching Scarred, and I am unaffected by some of the stuff that is shown on there.

 

wat i'm saying is, relax, and be urself, those 2 things go a LONG way

 

Alright, I am going to try and get some slep, I have a case of Insomnia, and have not been able to get to sleep for almost three days.

 

You know, ラクシーヌ's post made me realize this thread is here. So I read the whole thing, and the majority of the advice here sucks. Advice should not be given by people who haven't solved the situation for themselves or at the very least experianced it. If you have and i'm wrong, congrats to you. Your advice just gives off that impression. And people taking half-assed advice is a wrose move. ラクシーヌ's advice not worknig is only dangerous to herself and her problem. Their are no retrys(if it sounds like I'm flaming or insulting anyone then I apologize, I just want people to realize how extreme giving advice is if you don't know what to do entirely, once again, I apologize if you took this as flaming or insulting in anyway). This thread is so ****ing pointless, it needs to end and everyone needs to STFU

Here's the best advice you all can get: Problems are best delt with the person having them, ask any therapist/advice giver. Because in the end they either learn from them, or their gut feeling solves it for them in time. Asking for help on social problems, etc is just ridiculous.

EDIT: ラクシーヌ, for your emotion problem, I suggest therapy in some way. Something is seriously wrong with you, and no forum user can help you here...

 

I do not see how any of the advice given to me has been dangerous in any way. Also, I will take the time to tell you that I am a female, not a male. Just letting you know about that so (hopefully) the same mistake is not made.

I am already scheduled to go to therapy on Monday.

 

Not yours as much as other people's... I didn't exactly read your problem, I just assumed before my edit that it was yet another social problem. My bad for both. And I caught the gender thing when I read your problem...

Good for you(not sarcasm). If the therapist gives you any advice give it a try. It's worth it...

 

Alright then, I do not know how much a therapist can help, but from what I hear, he is pretty good at helping the problems he is presented in therapy sessions.

 

ok, sry for trying to help. i went through the problem as well but i just can't really put it into words very well of wat i did. sry if my advice is crappy

 

You'll forgive me if I think this is just utter shiet. Everyone feels, and you don't just go to sleep and wake up "re-wired" or different

 

I can not explain it myself, but that is what happened.

Re-Wired?

 

Are you on antidepressants at all? They will make you get like that.
It IS possible. The human brain is incredibly complex, and when youget chemical imbalances, these sorts of things happen.

 

I am not on any type of medications.

 

Then I think it is a chemical imbalance in your brain...D: Hopefully its just a 'phase'...some people recover, others need help D:
Good luck-

 

This is probably rather pathetic, but my problem is my family. Specifically my sisters and my dad.

The sisters are twins, first off. They're the type of twins that get along one minute and are at each other's throats the next. Every time they fight, I'm the one who has to break them up because all my parents do is yell at them, which does not help. So, I move in to break them up, getting hurt while doing so. The older twin usually scratches me, most of the time drawing blood and I have several scars to prove it. The younger twin, she bites. She's never drawn blood, but she does leave marks.

So, every time I break them up, I get hurt. Then, my dad yells at me for fighting with them when I'm just acting as the peacemaker. This leads to me having a breakdown because I am not the most emotionally stable person. Now, Dad knows that I'm unstable emotionally and he knows that yelling at me will make me break down and lock myself in my room for hours on end, not letting anyone in.

Recently, it's been getting worse. Not only does Dad yell at me whenever I try to break the twins up, he yells at me for them getting in fights even if I just walked in the door from spending the weekend away from home. It's as if I'm the family's scapegoat, since my brother can't be used as one because he's in jail across the state.

I'm really getting tired of this, but I don't know what I can do. I spend a lot of time with my best friend, spending entire weekends with her as often as possible. I can't move out of the house; I don't have a job to support myself. I can't live with any of my other friends because, since high school, they've all moved out of town and I don't have their addresses. I also cannot get medicated for depression or whatever my instability is because I'm not covered on medical insurance anymore.

Well, at least typing it up and posting makes me feel better. Thank gods for this thread because I really needed to get that off my chest.

 

So far therapy has not helped anything, how long does it usually take to get the problem fixed?

 

This has "PATHETIC" stamped in red all over it, but here I go...

OK, now at school, my life isn't as bad as home, but it's still crap. I'm the youngest one in class, so that automatically makes my the center of getting s*** dumped on. Then to top it off, that things I do, say, and like gets added on. I'm teh softie of our school, so I don't have the heart to do anything about it, and it's starting to piss me off.

At home, life is a living hell.
I can't go two seconds without my dad screaming in my face and calling me a liar, or a bunch of other things I can't even put on here.
Mym mom doesn't have a clue what goes on when she's not home, like about two weeks ago, my dad started to threaten to kick me and mom out for the 5th time that month. I mean, my mom pays almost ALL the bills, except teh house payment and the light. If we go, all dad woud have is the house and electricity, because he's too damn cheap to pay the bills for things he uses the most! He head is always either glued to the computer screen on the web, or he's on his a** watching T.V, and yelling at me and mom because he thinks WE'RE lazy and we don't do s***.

And to add on, he isn't even my real father!
Mom isn't even married to the b******! They're just roomies!
I don't even KNOW my real father! The last time I saw him, I was like...5, and too young to remember! All I know, is that his name is David...>.<

Then my mom. She's overprotective. I mean come on. She won't let me go places with my friends...I didn't even get to sleep over at my friend's house before until about 2 or 3 months ago! And she expects me to be a f***ing angel! I'm not perfect!

And they both treat me like I'm two years old.

COME ON! I'm only 13! Do they expect me to be f***ing perfect?! They act like it.