Help with Life

I will be honest and say that I've never really had any sort of profound issue in my life that would make me fit to relate or even feel what someone with a a very serious issue, like what you're actually referring to. I can imagine, but I've never experienced something like an abusive family member, sexual molestation, or even the death of a close loved one. And I don't want to create the idea that I don't believe the interent can help. If done right anything, including self-help/ kids help phone-like forums, can work. Sadly my expereinces have only shown me pop-culture whores playing the cliche emo card. But if something is to work fully, it can't just be a thread on a forum about gaming. It needs to be an entire forum. For the record I'll always see live human conversation to be better than any internet site. And that's my spiel.

 

I agree with the fact that an immense majority of this forum doesn't have the mental capacity of the topic to provide useful advice/support in the given situations. I haven't gone into any detailed view of this thread, but I'm assuming that most of the posts here are petty everyday problems that virtually everyone deals with at some point in their life.

 

Yeah, as a normal advice thread there's no issue.

 

I agree. While we can't call ourselves professional (sorry for anyone who went to school about it or something and can), can truly anyone? Everyone's problem's are different, and everyone's feelings about their, or anyone elses' problems.

Even with the anonymity, I still feel uncomfortable. But really, no one goes to this forum who knows me in real life, so I really have no reason to feel that way. That's just me. I hardly feel comfortable in any situation.
And, yeah, I'm WAY more comfortable speaking with my friends about something than speaking with some random teacher-person that I barely know.

I second that.

LOL. "But if alcohol hurts them then why do they use it?" OMG. ala-TEEN? Sounds more like a question a kindergartener would ask. (Although I do wonder that myself sometimes, guess I won't know 'till I'm 21)
Yeah. The people on the forums you go to can be more of a help, but also, they also can't really hurt you. If you want to ignore people onthe Internet, they can't really do much about it. (Unless they know your adress. Scary thought)

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I went to like this Bible-study thing for a few weeks (It was only once a week), and they would try to help us with problems, but they would also try to like, carve religion ino all our thoughts. It's like, how are we s'posed to get on with our lives if all we think about is God? I mean, it's hard enough for me to concentrate in school (ADD) without that on my mind.
I said "we" and "our" and "us" because it was a bible study group.

I believe that true friends get along most of the time, but still, everyone fights/argues. I had to let go of one of my friends, we never had fun anymore, and we always argued. And she was a KH fan, too!
I trust my friends. I tell them everything. And I know I can trust them, because friends trust eachother.

GO LINKIN PARK!!!! YaAaAaAaY!!!!



As for my issues, they're really more personal. I don't get teased at school. Well, only by this one kid who everyone hates anyway. I'd bet he has less friends than I have. Not that I don't have many, it's just, why make fun of someone who doesn't even care? And even worse, get made fun of for it?
I'm really more paranoid than anything. As I'm typing this, I'm thinking about what people might do about it. I mean, like, bad stuff. Using it to scare me. Stuff like that.

DON'T TRY SCARING ME. I don't like it. It makes me not happy. lol

 

waoh i just noticed this was here *facedesk* well i'm here for all of you guys now anyway. just as soon as i stop bashing my head against the wall for constant;y overlooking this. (this is one of my favorite boards, eventhough i don't post much)

 

not sure if this is still going but i need help, i dont want to live my life anymore.

before you say it i dont mean suicide, i REALLY dont want to die, but my life has just become too much for me.....
i have exams which arent too hard but there is immense pressure and i always work myself up before each one until im a nervous wreak. nothing in my life seems real anymore, like im in a dream that i cant wake up from. i cant think straight, i can barely put any of this into words (as you can see). i am also bored. VERY BORED. i want to go out and have fun, go to parties, go out with my friends etc. but i cant because of exams and im on the verge of breaking. i always feel like i want to cry but i dont know why.
theres another rather major thing but i dont really want to go into that.........

 

My advice. Don’t freak out about exams. Go out and have some fun. By worrying about exams so much you've created this bored depressed state and actually increased your odds of doing poorly on exams (Trust me there. It's scientifically proven and I’ve experienced it first hand). Now you should still study but don’t let the fear of failing them consume you.

 

Ok here we go.



'm losing all my friends to a ****head who used to be my best friend. And everyone is also gettin g me down even though I never did anything to them, I cant go out after school because if a certain person sees me I will be killed. My family is dying off (mainly because of cancer) My only social life was here, but now I dont feel like I belong. And my grades have gone from A/A* to F

 

Everyone hates their life whenever exams roll around. It's the heightened point of anxiety in a student's life. You just have to smile through the pain and focus on your studying and notes. Before you know it, you're done, it's summer, and everything's peachy.

 

Ummmmmm....well...

About the A****head thing, I say that you should go right up to her/him/it and tell them what you think. Chances are, they are afraid of you and try to get other people to put you down. I know it sounds cheesy,but its true.

What do you mean that they will kill you?

 

I mean they will beat me to death.

 

And why is that?

 

Yes, I'm curious as to why they would also. :\

 

Well he started off just beating me up all the time, so I went to the cops, and he got off with a warning (wtf?) and now he says he's gunna kill me.

 

I find that to be a very sketchy and condensed version. You should try talking to a teacher/prinncipal.

 

He doesn't go to my school.

 

But you should still tell someone about it! I would hate to see anyone else on this site get hurt.

 

So he picks on you then for? Also does everyone in your family have cancer, or were you exaggerating a little?

 

I dont know why he does it he just does.

 

doesn't mean u can't do anything about it. and just call the cops, that's all i can say. if u let him intimidate u into not telling anyone, ur just gonna have a painful life