Help with Life

Yes time to piss everybody off! I'm so perfect. Everybody in my school likes me. I can be such an *** to people. I even am an *** right in their face yet they don't hate me. Am I lucky? Or am I really as awesome as I say I am. I can fit in with anybody and I don't need drugs to do it. I seriously can't name anybody in my school that dislikes me. Oh and I am very good at pretending to be a friend just to get what I want. OOOOPS! Now I hope none of you go to my school.:D :D :D No but seriously I'm a great student. Straight A student. Yeah it makes my parents happy. I just need more. I wonder what it is? And all that stuff at the beginning is true.

 

X3 I highly doubt this statement. What grade are you in? I mean seriously, if you're really popular in school then [a] You're female and all the other girls think you're a skank, but don't tell you You're male and all the people who don't know you/hang out with you think you're a prick. There are always people in the world who aren't your type.

 

Thank you.:D :D :D This is the exact reaction I was looking for. Well if you need to know I'm a Freshman in High School. I'm choice minus the prick part. I just do this sometimes as a joke. Everybody knows that I pretend to be cocky. I f you really knew me you would be laughing. I'm the exact opposite of cocky. And I'm sure there may be a few people who don't like me. I'm fine with that I just say love ya too and move on with life. The part about my grades are true.:D :D :D But seriously I know people like that who think that everybody loves them. I just can't stand those people. I'm just laid back and easy going. That's why I don't really have enemies. But the part about insulting people in their face is also true. I'm not very proud of that. I can really be a jerk sometimes. But what doesn't help is later when people laugh about it making it seem okay. See Alice there is no need for name calling. I forgive you. And that whole cocky thing is just an act and most people I know already know that. But still like I said even though I said I have a good life I still have something missing. And that seems to be my only problem.:( Sorry got a little cocky for real there.:D :D :D

 

Well everyone can be a jerk sometimes...I guess if youre fairly level headed for the majority of the time youll end up well off. Insulting, you mean telling them how you really feel about or actually demeaning them? Because one is actually good to do, the other, not so much. And hey, if you have a good life then be proud. It is quite an achievement nowadays. Its great that youre well liked & have a sucessful life thus far & Id imagine that its encouraging for those who struggle to know that it does get better.
On a completely different note:
I dont make enemies either; and I dont know of anyone that dislikes me. I know theres a ****load of people that feel indifferent about my existence, but no one that wishes me harm. I got alotta friends and thats what I focus on. As for you, youre lucky youve got those straight As. But, I bet you work hard for them too so its not really luck. Wait till sophmore year, no wait, junior Depends on teachers too D: Anyhow-
I suppose thats quite enough rambing from me for now:p ...

 

Now that I think about it you are right. When I say something mean it is how I feel. It isn't meant to insult. Thanks :D :D :D

 

wow i was sick for like three days and im soo lost now on this thread XD
wat did i miss?

 

I pretended to be cocky and C_S_I_Girl got mad. I said my being cocky was a joke. And I am awesome.:D :D :D

 

*blinks*
ya like im gonna belive that............
lol

 

Youre very welcome ^^

Nah Im not mad, and I never was:p I like you; youre spunky and have alotta attitude xD

 

Advice is cool and all, but in reality there are going to be some things that are best said to a guidance councilor or parent. It's always best for someone to confide in a friend, loved one, or some one with more experience than to toss their laundry onto a public forum where thousands of eyes can view it.

 

Canada Eh? Well this thread doesn't ask for your personal opinion so that wasn't needed. Ummm on topic. I can't think of anything on topic sorry.:( :( :(
EDIT: Ok if anybody ever needs help just pray and ask God to help. He always does one way or another. That is how my life is so good. You just need to trust him.

 

I'm sorry, apparently my being from Canada warrants that my valid point about emo and suicidal kids discussing their problems on an open forum-- most of which consists of kids-- not be needed? Alright that's cool. The problem is that most people are unfit on a forum to deal with people who actually have problems. At most you'll get the odd dysfunctional emo kid who thinks that they can't talk to anyone because they have too much goddamn Simple Plan running through their ears, when in fact they're just an ignorant, inconsiderate brat that hasn't even tried to do anything, and decides that wallowing in their own self-pity and sharing it with obviously qualified people on t3H INTARW3BZ!!!!!!1shift+1 is the best thing to do. Well I'm sorry I doubted you Dr. Phill, obviously you hold the answers for all the kids on this forum that are thinking of downing bleach instead actually talking to someone that cares about them some more.

Now if this was a general advice thread, there'd be nothing to worry about. Unfortunately there are far to many emo gamer posts for it to be considered. but hey I'm finshed giving "opinions". I think I'll just stick around to remind some of the kids to cut themselves just a little bit more, and maybe turn up that Simple Plan.

 

... he's got a point, Roxma. *claps*

 

I second higherbeing.

 

First of all I think Canada is cool. I brought that up because I like Canada. But you are right that this isn't a thread to help people. But wait yes it is. And just for the record OH Canada!

 

Oh, well it was my mistake to take offense then. Yes Canada rocks a many socks. And this may be a "help thread", but it's shiet and will never replace professional guidance or family.

 

Sorry, WR but I'm disagreeing with the statement regarding that the residents of an internet forum are unfit to help with personal issues. While this forum doesn't have such a high concentration of intellectuals interested in things like so, there are other forums like the MT ones that have very reliable advice.

Part of the reason why people come to forums is because they like the anonymity of it. And yeah, emo kids? Seriously, they're a lot more comfortable talking to someone of their own age who deals with stuff that they do. Not a school counselor. I couldn't care less about speaking with my school's social worker.

No, I'm not a psychiatrist, but I can relate to someone a hell of a lot more than most professionals can. A lot of the people here don't come with very serious issues anyway.


Personally, I enjoy coming to forums because they're my type of people. It's like when my mom tried to get me to go to an ala-teen meeting. The people there were honestly some of the most fvvcktarded people I have ever met. They had been in the program for at least a year, but were still naive to ask inane questions like "But if alcohol hurts them why do they use it??"

:|

And that is where I drew the line. I like talking to people over at the MT boards significantly more than people at ala-teen because they are obviously more understanding of situations, and unlike in ala-teen they don't associate everything with god. I'm fine with christians, I have a lot of friends who are christian, but when it's being mixed with something that is supposed to be completely free of religion I have problems.

In relation people resort to posting stuff on here because they don't really want to get into with their friends. I trust my friends, but there are some things I'd rather not share with them. Especially since I'm involved with a lot of different groups of people, who on rare occasion get along with each other.

Also, Simple Plan is soOoOoo not the emo icon anymore: CRAAAAWLING IN MY SKIIIIIIN~~~

 

Yeah there is a relation amongst those that like to share their problems with those that experience the same ones, but you don't go through 4 years of post-secondary education and sometimes graduate school to be a crappy guidance counsilor that knows nothing about kids. I'm sorry that your school has one that lacks the ability to relate to kids of a certain, and yes some programs are just down right shiet, but most work unbelievably well. The only issue is the subjective barrier that the generations build for themselves. Kids are always going to think that adults don't understand them in some way, but forget that adults were also kids once, and dealt with the same, if not worse things.

Also, there is issue with the level of comfort some people perceive there to be. Of course you'll find people that know what it's like and are generally cool about it. But most of the time-- sadly-- it is a whole bunch of kids that haven't lived life enough to know their own ignorance as to how good their lives actually are. Then what you get is a giant vortex of youth misconception, mixed with ignorance, and horrible pop culture fads (If not all three, at least the first two). Yes there is anonimity, but there are also *******s on the internet that will never make anything a truely safe place. Plus nothing says empathy like a good real hug.

 

I agree.

White_Rook and I are Psychology majors right now in post-secondary institutions, and I naturally will have to agree with he says that 4+ years of post-secondary education can't be considered useless after all's said and done.

There's a reason why it's a professional occupation, and why they get paid for what they do. Many people don't even give them a chance, and automatically make the assumption that they will never understand their problems--be it because of age, environment, etc.

No, forum members may not be *entirely* useless, but there is a lot more growth to be gained when you communicate with people physically and express yourself in person and actively associate yourself with other human beings within arm's distance to express your problems and seek a resolution that way. There is only so much that can be achieved with words; some require therapy, others require medication--forum discussions just can't address these issues.

Relating to something is different from being able to treat it, or guide people through their problem(s). That's what post-secondary eduction in Psychology/Psychiatry can help people learn to do.

 

Obviously, it's a cliche expectation that teenagers are going to be completely oblivious to the fact that those around them were their age at one point in their lives. However, since you seem to not really know the level I'm speaking of I won't go near the subject. There are issues in life that a not many people have to endure. Not the normal pity-whore "OMG no one understands me D:" crap.