Help me...?

Discussion in 'Help with Life' started by xXRhian+RoxasXx, Sep 3, 2009.

  1. Rayku Kingdom Keeper

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    No, just no...


    First of all, Brothers playfight with brothers is okay..sometimes but it can escalate into an acual fight and not make things better at all. Violence is never the anwser to resort to wen trying to solve a problem, EVER.

    Second, his sister is FEMALE, A GIRL. Why would a BOY hit a GIRl, let alone his own KIN. She can get seriously hurt if its even playfighting, let alone an acutal fight.

    Fighting with fist in the family never solves disputes ever, it creates more.

    Talk to her one on one, and try to talking to her with your mother present if she can or even on the phone with your dad.
     
  2. Cloud of darkness Traverse Town Homebody

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    O.o sometimes you whodeu have to use violence to protect the ones you love .....(enough said)
     
  3. Rayku Kingdom Keeper

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    Acutally, that really the ONLY VAILD reason to use it.
     
  4. Zexion of the Twilight The conflicts within my priorities....

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    Sister troubles? I understand, it's a real pain to deal with. Unfortunately, the only advice I can give you is bare with it until you move away for college or they move away for college. Attempt to take the pain until that day, just find something else to do in the meantime. It sucks to have your life stopped by someone else, but you'll learn to appreciate your own time more that way. Just do all you can while she's doing her thing. Try the passive approach and ignore the extremely aggressive ways that've been posted here. You can complain to your parents or go to your school counselor so they can complain to your parents. These kinds of people just exist, people who love conflicting with others.
     
  5. tSG1 Chaser

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    Punch, ***** slap.

    And tell your mother while your at it .

    Don't take it from her, she'll be the same in the future.
     
  6. Rayku Kingdom Keeper

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    It would make this escalate you know that, right?
     
  7. tSG1 Chaser

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    Ahh you see, if it escalates, then the sister finds out that the other sister has a backbone, which could mean that the sister knows she's not bullying a plaything, but a person with a voice.

    That came out quite good :D.
     
  8. DemyxPlaysMySitar Twilight Town Denizen

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    no violence.
    'nuff said.
     
  9. BloodxXxDark Destiny Islands Resident

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    Violence is just going to end badley DX,My sister is 23 and she still bullys me,but not to tis extream,I know she bullys me out of love....now...what I would d...Is tell her off,give her some real shizey and tell her how you feel xD-then,my guess is,she won't bother you for a while...and perhaps EVERY time she does somthing that makes you angry-give her some more talking to xD.....and I know this method is quite unrulery but...if worse come to worst....then give her a taste of her own medicine.........and if none of THIS works....die her hair pink while she's sleeping xD
     
  10. Zexion of the Twilight The conflicts within my priorities....

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    XD Dye her hair pink, eh? Difficult, but fun..... anyway, witty responses are pretty effective too. Just say "I love you too!" every time she bothers you.
     
  11. Rayku Kingdom Keeper

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    No..this is just a uneeded fight.


    You dont need to prove you have a backbone by slapping or hitting someone at all, there are other ways to do this.
     
  12. Styx That's me inside your head.

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    Why'd you let your fists show that you have a voice when you can let your voice show that you have a voice? You're contradicting yourself.
     
  13. In explicit Angst Gummi Ship Junkie

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    Trust me, I know about sibling fights. And fighting just makes you angrier and more vengeful. Plus you can get a black eye. My sister really, really is a b****. I can't describe it with any other way then that. She gets mad of little things and is always bullying me. And me and her have the same best friend so she's always pushing me away when we're visiting her. Really. She truly pushes me away from her. It's really hard. She might get furious if I poke her or if I grab her arm to show her something she just hit's me. Sometimes I'm so mad I might attack her but that never works. Really, fighting your sister would be just a stupid waste of time. After that you'll just be more mad at your sister and want to fight her again. You really should just ignore her and give her space, but do not let her walk over you. I did that mistake and now my sister thinks she can just hit me and I'd be okay with it. Just try to think something to say back at her. And if you truly feel like attacking her just write about your feelings. It truly does work. I sometimes write my best poem when I'm sad or furious. So remember to ignore her but don't let her walk over you. Maybe if you have an iPod or an mp3 player, you can listen to that and ignore her words.