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I feel pretty embarrassed doing this... But I just don't know what to do anymore. Alright this started a couple of months ago, there is this girl who I've always liked. One day I decided to talk to her, it all worked out well enough and we started hanging out. She didn't know I liked her, the reason was because she had a boyfriend. Well anyway I did eventually tell her that I liked her, she didn't tell me if she liked me because she had a boyfriend, and didn't like to talk about it.

Well she broke up with her boyfriend, and I was going to ask her out, but decided to wait because she had just broken up. Less then a week later she already had a new boyfriend, and she completely stopped talking to me. I don't really care about dating her anymore. I just want us to be friends, but she's just ignoring me no matter what I do.

What should I do?

 

I don't mean to be bad but i've had a similar experiance and all i have to say is that they are b!tches, i've been trying to patch things up with this girl and she twists every other way to get away from me and we used to be perfect friends and i used to really like her but know i just don't.
We are in the same situation, try and patch things up and if you can't just completely ignore her after that.If she tries to talk to you just walk because she's not worth it.

 

You ignore her!
you wait to get over her since she is backstabbing you!

you don't deserve this and if she thinks you'll be there after she breaks up AGAIN then you walk away (cant say much after previous post)

 

Well. ignore her... maybe she'll talk to you again after this. maybe a little of her own medicine is just wat she needs.

 

Ouch. Some friend you've got there. She isn't your friend afterall if she acts like that. Get a new one.

 

ive been through this before and the best thing to do is IGNORE HER AND MOVE ON!

 

Why is everyone telling you to ignore her?
That won't do anything.

She's probably ignoring you because maybe she found out that you liked her somehow? And now she's with someone else and she may feel bad?

Ignoring her like that is just childish.
No matter the reason, it's childish of her to be ignoring you in the first place.
Don't try too hard but be friendly. ><​

 

I'd suggest that maybe you ask her what is up with her not talking to you. Maybe there is some reason. If she's unresponsive or you don't feel you can do that, in the end, the only other thing to do is let her go from your life until she changes her mind about things. She doesn't sound like a very good friend to you with this action she's doing, so unless there is some reason that's good, sadly, she's shown she's a fair weather sort and best considered such. I'd probably just try hanging out with other friends and well, sometime asking her what's up with her tude, but in the end resolving to just move on. Some people move on from friendships etc and don't bother telling a person about it. It's the way it goes.

 

she knew that he was interested for ages before this happened.
the reason he should ignore her is because she's being a b!tch and expects him to be there when things don't go her way.
I know because i've been put into the situation and have experiance with a girl like that.
They are nothing but trouble and being friendly only means that she'll have you to lean on and step on when things are tough.

 

I understand what you mean but I still disagree.
You can't lump one girl in with the same "catagory", she's human. Her own person.
Maybe she's just going through something right now.

I think you should ask her what's going on.
If she ignores you, or if she gets all bitchy about it, then I suggest just leaving her alone.

But give it a chance. >w<
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Stop acting all emo about it. you know what she wants? she wants you to tell her what you want and show her that you can get it. Dont try to fix the friendship.... show her that you want her and your more than enough for her if not more than she can handle. maybe she doesnt hang out with you any more becasue you just werent acting man enough for her.

 

nothing you really can do that won't make it worse, when girls get like that they get really stubborn. I know, I hate it to death, but that's just how they are. besides, if she is going to act that way to you then that only means she is not worth it. Acting like that is immature and quite frankly, that is pretty much middle school s**t. excuse me for my language ;). but yeah, it's best if you forget about her. girls like that will only break your heart, take it from me.

really, it goes both ways. she is also being childish by ignoring him, and to think otherwise shows disrespect to the guy. we hate when girls act that way. it only makes things worse and it always breaks our hearts.

 

This has been said before but dnt waste ur time on her... i have been through it so many times n im still in high school. Look they will eventually come around n be frens with u again.

There's this girl i like so much n she was my best friend that's a girl. Then i asked her out n she said no. We stopped talking for like 3 months. Now we're friends again but maybe not as close as before but it still counts.