Have you ever...

Im scared that if he doesnt like me back he wont wanna be my friend any more =[

 

Perhaps he does know but he doesn't want to show you that he know's.

 

huh?:huh::huh:

 

Tch. Yah. Guys (no offence to any here, I'm just speaking from experience.) in general are dull like that.

I just thought, "Nyeh. Whatever. *scratches head* If he's that dense, then obviously he doesn't feel the same way about me."

And I've been problem free in that aspect ever since. =D

Or you could just give him some time. Either way. xD

 

Kitty means that maybe he's too shy to tell you that he knows you like him.
Capiche? (sp?)

I pretty much understand where you are coming from.
It sucks...
Sorry.
Hope it gets better for you.

 

Only once. But then I came out and said I liked him. He fell out of his chair. xD Poor kid.

 

Haha lol :P

 

I don't see much of him since I'm busy with schooling and he's busy with work. But we still do talk on AIM sometimes about random stuff. He is rather cute. :3

 

So's the guy I like... But I think he does like me, IDK...

 

Then rugby tackle him like I did to my admiree. xD

...or at least come out and say it.

 

S'then just ask him if he'd like to go to a cafe with you or something.

Besides, guys tend to try and not show their feelings. You gotta (hypothetically speaking) hit 'em in the face and be like, "HEY. Stop being an emotional rock."

Then again, I'm told I'm emotionless, so...xD

 

Like I said I'm kind of afraid to, because if he doesnt like me back, he may not wanna be my friend anymore =[

 

And that's exactly why you should go out and say it!

My two best friends were starting to like each other, and so I told my guy friend to just ask her out.

And it worked.
It also helps when you have an arsenal of people trying to get you together, so you may want to have that in mind. ;D

 

yeah, but still...

 

Three options

Ah, youth. I wish I was still was in middle or high school. :xp:

I had a few cru...er... "likables" (also known as the "C" word) throughout my middle school years. Now, I look back and say to myself, "What the heck did I see in her in the first place?!" And then there was high school. I met this girl in Spanish class. We became fast friends because we were both kinda loners in our own way. We hung out a few times (AKA "dated"). Despite my inner voice that kept telling me that we were just friends, other people joked that we were going out with each other. Unfortunately, by the time we started in college, I developed a huge crush on her.

I kept vaguely hinting about it, but she already could see right through me. She knew I liked her in that way, but didn't feel the same about me. And that's when we started to drift apart. Now, I haven't seen or heard from her since Spring Semester. I distanced myself from others after that. I was afraid of being heart-broken again. Kinda sad and pathetic when I think about it. :(

Anyway, back to the matter at hand. Yeah, guys are dense most of the time. Of course, I wouldn't know being that no one ever had a crush on me. Either that or I was one of the dense ones. :xp:

As for whether you should say it or not, you've got three choices.

1.) Wait a couple of years. See if you two can strengthen your friendship first. Best to hang back and see what happens.

2.) Tell him. Worst case scenario: he'll turn you down and there'll be an awkward tension between the two of you. But at least you can get on with your life. Who knows? Maybe he'll start developing a crush on you months later after you move on. ;)

3.) Ask him if he has anyone that he likes first. It's best to know HIS preferences before you let him know yours. Open communication is a life saver and a neccesity in any budding relationship.

There are a few more options that aren't coming to me at the moment. But yeah, one of those three. Personally, I'd use the third option first. I just with I had known that before I developed a "likeable." :xp:

 

Been there....and still working on it. Let me know if anything works.

 

huh, it's hard to pick up these hints tho. i'm a guy and i HEARD some girl was trying to make me jealous one time but i never noticed this

 

Lol, no. Never. Though I know there are some girls that feel like that about me. xD But it's funny, becuase they think I don't know they like me and yet, I know that they think that I don't know that they like me. So all in all, I do know that they do. I never tell them of course. xD But I hint it everytime and then once they catch on, I change the subject completely.



If you want him to know. Heck, tell him. Who knows he can like you back. And it'll be a load off your chest.

Unless well you're like some of those odd people that just like dreaming about the dude/dudette.


Lol if I like a girl, I usaully tell them, hint it, or make someone tell them. It usaully is smooth for me. xD

 

*is confuzed about what u said*