Harkwind Rage

Discussion in 'Help with Life' started by Fayt-Harkwind, Feb 27, 2009.

  1. Fayt-Harkwind Where yo curly mustache at?

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    I've been rather horrible to alot of people on the internet and in my life. I've been doing this for like the past two and a half weeks and I have no idea why i'm being like this. I don't know whats bringing it on and it happens at the worst of times.
    I've been loosing sleep over trying to figure it out and thats not helping.
    I'm not asking for a fix i'm just asking for any ideas on the cause.
     
  2. childofturin Why?

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    You're feeling b*tchy. You need to lash out at SOMEONE because of something, maybe unconscious, that has happened to you lately. You are snappy and irritable. Am I right?

    I think that, since you don't know WHY you feel like this, it's something unconscious or so small that you don't even remember. Maybe stress is just beginning to get to you. Depending on your age, you could be pretty ready to move out of your parents' house, or out of college, or something similar. School could be piling up on you - have you had a lot of assignments, bad grades, or missed work lately?
     
  3. Juicy Chaser

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    ehhhh Fayt D:
    You dont seem too bad to me dear D:

    Hmm well... fine, ideas. If it was extreme then you could have some kind of mental condition but thats not very likely IMO. Most probably you're just stressed about something and can't exactly point out what it is because its a number of small things that are just building up and getting worse, eh?

    Whatever you've done or said to people, they can be put right with an apology and I'm sure that will help you to feel better. ^^

    You know where I am on msn if you want to talk.


    Hope it gets better for you ^^ And don't you go thinking you're a bad person <3
     
  4. Fayt-Harkwind Where yo curly mustache at?

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    You have a point but this is kinda ironic seeing how the stress seemed to come after the bundle of assignments where handed in XD I'm still too young to move out of home though so its not that, plus i'm in college so its a little different than going nuts over tests. But you are pretty close to discribing my 'b*tchyness'.

    You have a point about the appology thing but I can't appologise seeing how when I appologise I make the matter worse XD

    Anywho i'll have to put everything the two of you said into account and see if I can find the source of it.
     
  5. Luna Lovegood nani panda-kun

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    WTF )8<

    =/ Apologies make things better.Try it, see how it goes.
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  6. Finale Wannabe Nobody

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    It's called being a teenager. Almost every teenager is like that once in their teenage years. dont worry you'll get over it.
     
  7. Fayt-Harkwind Where yo curly mustache at?

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    No offence but are you freaking empty in the head? Thats suppose to happen in the margin of 11-14 for guys, which it already did. You don't get hyper hormone rage at 16 without good reason.
     
  8. Finale Wannabe Nobody

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    oh, im sorry :(

    perhaps something wen't wrong in a relationship and your lashing out at everybody.
     
  9. Misty gimme kiss

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    Like others have said, stress has most likely been building it up and you this was the easiest way for you to relieve yourself of it. It happens to everyone, regardless of age. I suppose the only thing that you can do is apologize and explain the situation to whoever you may have hurt and, in the future, find a healthier way to de-stress yourself.
     
  10. Repliku Chaser

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    It does seem like some issues of stress are building up for you and well, as funny as it can sound at your age, we all sometimes are just in a bad mood due to hormones which can be from a variety of things.

    Some suggestions I'd try is to do relaxing things if you can and watch your diet. Sometimes eating too many sugary things or carbohydrate foods can affect you or you may even have an unknown food allergy that can change temperament. Have you eaten any particular sort of food as of late consistently? Also, I'd suggest that you try to ensure you get your proper sleep since you say you are beginning to lose sleep over trying to figure out this issue. Make sure to drink water and maybe take a daily vitamin, either early morning or before you rest. Also, try to avoid caffeine before sleeping if you can. Another couple things that help me deal with moodiness is I take martial arts and also fencing in college as something to get exercise with and vent some, but also I do meditation once a week. Physical activities assist and the meditation can be relaxing. Maybe at night try some relaxing music and keep lights around you to a minimum so that you go to sleep well and can wake up fresh.

    Hope this helped at all and things get better for you.
     
  11. Jayn

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    Well InvisiFayt, maybe you can try and find some other way to release your anger?
    Seems like may that's all you need to do. Instead of taking it out on people who probably don't deserve it, try to find someone who will listen to vent to.

    Or hell, beat the crap out of your pillow or something. xD
    Even if you don't think there's a reason, then ask yourself what's bothering you.

    And to the people you've lashed out at, an apology would probably make you feel better. Even if it's not a vocal one. Maybe if it's just like...a kind gesture or something to make up for it.

    Hang in there, Fayt. x3