Girl "A"

I'm putting my faith in you guys!

Okay, so at my school, there is a girl (I'll call her girl "A") and she is so cute. She's a bit younger than me, but she is in the same classes as me and we've known each other for 2 years. I'm 17, she's 16. I wanna go out with her really badly, but she seems to just want to be friends. I'm not bad looking or anything. Plenty of girls have wanted to date me, but they aren't like Girl A. She's so compassionate, caring, smart, funny, cute, and she doesn't have a boyfriend. The problem, like I said, is that she wants to stay friends. What should I do?

 

Try not to force her to like you. If she doesn't like you like that, then that's that, time to move on.

 

Has she actualy told you she doesn't like you and just wants to be friends? If not then ask her how she feels about you, but it has to be at the right time.

 

You can't force people into liking you, or really do anything. Maybe give it more time and your friendship will develop into something else. Maybe your just not her type. Maybe she is unsure. But if she says she isn't intrested, back off.

 

Don't worry. I have the same problem with a girl i like. Show her somehow how you care for her and won't hurt her. But, i'm not that great with girls so, results may very.

 

Did she actually tell you that she wants to be friends? Once, about two years ago, I had this guy I wanted to go out with, but being shy about these sorts of things, I never told him. I met back up with him a few months ago (he has a gf now) and he told me that back then he really did wanna ask me out back then, but took my silence about the subject as "Just wanting to be friends." But then we were MUCH younger than you guys are, so it probably wouldn't work the same way.

 

Here's the thing, she has flirted with me alot. She seems to like me alot, but she hasn't asked me out. Should I?

 

Find out how she feels first. Ask her if she likes you.

 

Ask her if she would ever want anything more.


But, don't want to dampen your spirits, I have loads of guy friends and I'm always flirting with them. Sounds mean, but we enjoy it :3 'Cause there is no strings attatched :3

Or you could just take the leap and ask her out. You have nothing to lose, and perhaps a lot to gain :3 (is it just me, or do I sound like an advert xD)

 

Is she an all around flirty person or does she just flirt with you? If she flirts with more than just you don't ask her out until you hear it from her mouth that she likes you. It's possible that she flirts with you because she wants you to ask her out.

 

She only flirts with me. I've seen her around other guts. She can be a real jerk to people who flirt with her.

 

Well then, she either likes you, or she's playing you.

 

She probably likes you.

Thats my view as a girl anyway xD

 

Slowly talk to her about this. You can't go all:

"Yeah! I know! I hate that teacher too! So do you like me?"
O.O

X3 She's probably a jerk to other people who flirt with her because she doesn't like them that way, just playing. *I'm like that! XD) Has she ever been a jerk to you?

 

This sounds much like the ordeal I'm in. Almost exactly, in fact.

What you should probably do is try and hang out with her more outside of school. It's SO MUCH easier to socialize when you're hanging out at one of your houses, watching a movie, etc.. For example, I invited this one girl I like over (who previously showed no signs of liking me) and afterward we have been close ever since, and we both know we like eachother... infact it's insanely obvious.

So, try and communicate with her outside of school. If you like her and your feelings are getting in the way of actually asking her out, try and ignore them and ask anyway. Just see if she wants to hang out and watch a movie or something, or go to a movie. Also, it's probably smart to reassure her it doesn't mean anything except a nice time to hang out. Making subtle (or obvious) hints isn't much of a bad idea, either.

All the best luck, mate. ;]

 

I would ask her if she would want to date first off since it doesn't seem that she's told you directly no and that you are waiting for her to ask you out. You could be waiting a long time before she'd decide to ask you or any guy out since some girls prefer a boy to ask them out instead. So go for it. If she says no, then you have your answer and she could remain a friend. You can have respect for her great qualities you find so cool and not go out with her. In the end it is the girl's choice. If she says yes though, then you have a good thing so I think you should ask. If she says she's not ready to date, there may be a reason called her parents don't want her dating yet or well, she's just not ready for it, since you mentioned she's younger than you. However, putting it out there that you like her at least lets her know you have interest.

 

She has told you that?Wow.

Maybe you should try to find Girl B until you get the courage to ask her out, if you want to take the step.
Some girls say they want to be friends so guys want to ask them out more.
Maybe she's one of those girls.

 

Ask her. The worst answer you can get is a no XP

But then again like a girl actually likes me XD

 

You have to show you like her a little.
Just do something nice for her, but nothing majour yet.
When you two get really flirty with each other, show it a little more.
But just a tiny bit.
And I think I know the reason she hasn't asked you out yet.
She feels intimidated.
Girls feel like generally guys ask out the girls.
Trust me.
:)

 

Didn't he say that she gets pissed off when others flirt with her?