*Sigh* I dont know what to do... So yeah, one of my friends, well...friends that is a little...violent...and abusive...(I have a reason for saying this) went with me a a teacher to drop off some cans to our local pantry. So, then while we waited in the van, I remembered to ask him about a drawing he wanted to show me..So yeah, he gave me his phone and told him to scroll through the photo album and I did, and I found some...nasty stuff...Including Lolicon... So then I freaked and drop his phone (I knew what it was..) and he yelled at me...so yeah, fast foward the past few days, and he's been talking to me about it in detail >.< And I've been trying to tell him Im not interested...But he gets angry and Im scared because he HAS CHOKED someone before *sigh* I suck at this....Why did i even post this
That isnt too bad though. Just tell him not to yell and that you dont want to know the details. Tell him also "There is no point of getting mad if im just not interested".
Don't hang out with this guy. He's obviously a bad influence, and it can screw you over in the future. Tell him, in the most discreet and polite way possible that you no longer wish to be friends. End of problem.
If he won't listen when you tell him calmly shout at him at the littlest thing he does and tell him you never want to see him again.
Repitition is the best way to go. Tell him to leave you alone, once again, in the most polite way possible. If he ignores you, say it again. Don't let anything he says get to you, it'll only make his case stronger. Or if he listens, but "forgets" the next day, tell it to him again. As many times as possible, until he gets the point. Although, I do know guys like these. He may not let up. If that's the case, then talk to your guidance consuler. He can mediate the issue between you two.
@ Light Dynasty: Don't spam, hun >__> Okay, now for the topic... I think you should stop hanging out with the guy. He's a really bad influence, and you don't want it to start to affect you, so YOU become like that. Be serious with him, tell him to stop messing around and listen, or you'll never talk to them again.
Okay, so I tried that, So yesterday...I had gave this teacher a form for a culture exchange program nearby, So she gave me a letter in response. I left it on the table to get my french notebook and he took it and read it, I went into a tirade and started yelling at him to mind his beeswax....Again, he didnt take it. >.< Also, at a School Meeting that day, They were giving out awards, after that, I was going to give an accoument about the program, someone shouted out that i was going to annouce I was Gay..and it sounded like him I didnt take it, I shouted him out in front of the whole school...
You really need to make the fact that you are not interested known and if that doesnt help then you need to turn to someone in authority if things get scary or you think they might get scary.
