Friends with Benefits relationships...

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  1. DigitalAtlas Don't wake me from the dream.

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    Oh, but with a post like that, you must. Our spam community is generally nice towards personal confessions.
     
  2. Mixt The dude that does the thing

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    *hides pitchfork behind back and nods vigorously*
     
  3. Saxima [screams geometrically]

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    Aha . . . ha . . . ha . . . Okay, I'm only seven, I shouldn't be allowed to talk about it.

    Makaze, please help me out a little. •n•
     
  4. DigitalAtlas Don't wake me from the dream.

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    YOU ARE NOT SEVEN :P

    caps.

    Tell me privately? I'll post my experience here first if ya want.
     
  5. Chad Thundercucc The dharma of valvu; the dream of a clatoris

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    Your hand =/= another human being.

    Just sayian.
     
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    I like the idea, but I could never even consider trying out such a relationship. I feel like I'd screw it up by falling in love. I do that more easily than I once thought.
     
  7. muff monkey Twilight Town Denizen

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    I know I probably worded it wrong, but I'm really good with controlling my feelings, if that's what you're getting at: that eventually it will be more? We've been doing this for about a year now, and nothing has sparked between us.
     
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  9. DigitalAtlas Don't wake me from the dream.

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    I'm not spoiling the ending.
     
  10. Britishism Gummi Ship Junkie

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    Have sex with John Malkovich.
     
  11. muff monkey Twilight Town Denizen

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    I like having endings spoiled.
     
  12. Saxima [screams geometrically]

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    Nopenopenopenope.

    ;~;
     
  13. DigitalAtlas Don't wake me from the dream.

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    Then maybe someone else will.

    YOU BROUGHT IT UP XD Don't spoil the trust and sanctity of this spam section :P We're all a family.
     
  14. Chad Thundercucc The dharma of valvu; the dream of a clatoris

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  15. Britishism Gummi Ship Junkie

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    how, possibly, could that last nope be pink.

    It shouldn't be pink.
    Why's it pink.
     
  16. Makaze Some kind of mercenary

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    Taking addictive drugs more than once and hoping you won't go through withdrawal...

    Your input. Now.

    Go.

    Are you sure you are doing alright? You seem to be contradicting yourself at the least.

    You say you do not see each other often, but that you put in the effort if you really need it. For one, effort should not be involved if it is casual, and the way you say that makes it sound like you are rationalizing. Who sees who? Does he really come around when you think you need it?

    You said a few things in quick succession.

    It is friends with benefits,
    It is more complicated than that,
    But just convince yourself and it's okay.

    Is that stable? If you are easy and casual about it, then why do you need to convince yourself?

    I'm not saying that it can't work or even implying that, but it sounds like you have some issues already. Your post is full of emotional high and lows, and those shouldn't be involved in a post about a friends with benefits relationship. You use a lot of emotional words like amazing, need, complicated, help and convince. Why don't you sound calm and serene if things are peachy?

    Is everything really alright?

    Leave her alone, you lot.

    And Sax, don't bring things up if you aren't willing to explain them.
     
  17. Saxima [screams geometrically]

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    Okay, I WASN'T AWARE THAT THEY WOULD ASK ME TO ELABORATE ON HER I'M SORRY

    Hmhmhm, you'll never find out.
     
  18. DigitalAtlas Don't wake me from the dream.

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    Ending spoiled.... But in a much nicer and very concerned friend way. Otherwise, this^

    Mak's showing kindness! He can be changed.
     
  19. Britishism Gummi Ship Junkie

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    You said on her

    and yes I will god save me
     
  20. Makaze Some kind of mercenary

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    That isn't necessarily a typo.