for the first time in a year and a half

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  1. Noroz I Wish Happiness Always Be With You

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    I suspected.

    People break up due to what is in the best interest of them both. It doesn't always mean they don't love eachother, and having spent so much time with one another, of course it'll hurt. It could for example be that one of them moved somewhere and instead of holding on to something that wouldn't last, you end it.
     
  2. Sanya Orussia’s 586th Fighter Regiment

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    This still exists?
     
  3. The Fuk? Dead

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    You obviously haven't been in this sort of situation.
     
  4. Chad Thundercucc The dharma of valvu; the dream of a clatoris

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    Ah, hadn't thought of it that way.

    Still, I can imagine you can never really be ok with the breakup if you're hurting from it, was my point. Sure, you can accept it, but that's something totally different.

    You're right. Never been with someone for that long.
     
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  6. Noroz I Wish Happiness Always Be With You

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    You just proved my point, you haven't been in the situation. I have, it's not easy. You've spent time with this certain someone. To be frank, a year and a half is not that long, but it's still quite some time, especially if you're fairly young. (15-19)
     
  7. Chad Thundercucc The dharma of valvu; the dream of a clatoris

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    You're right, I haven't been in this particular situation before, but what you were implying was that I don't have much experience in relationships in general, which I do.

    I'm not saying that it's easy to move on, especially if you're with someone for so long. I'm just saying that it's not quite a mutual break up if one side still has feelings for the other or is "hurting" like Rosey is over the break up.
     
  8. The Fuk? Dead

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    You still don't know what you're talking about. But hey, it's all good.
     
  9. Boy Wonder Dark Phoenix in Training

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    A mutual break up does not mean that both people don't have any feelings for the other any more. It simply means they both consented to breaking up, for various reasons.
     
  10. Plums Wakanda Forever

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    I trolled the public rooms with some friends.
    Sad to say it was the most fun in a while.
     
  11. Rosey Chaser

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    break up clarification time.

    first of all im 17. and in high school. so a year and a half is a pretty long time when you are well, my age.

    we broke up because he moved to california two, almost three months ago. its not because we dont love each other... we do. the distance and the amount we are both busy would make it impossible for us to be with each other like we want to. so we are still best friends and it was a clean break off but... that doesnt mean it doesnt hurt you know.
     
  12. Noroz I Wish Happiness Always Be With You

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    Somewhat similar to my story, my girlfriend lived in the US and I lived in Norway.
     
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    I'm sorry, that really sucks

    Here's an idea. push the muffin button and have a muffin. My treat
     
  15. Trigger hewwo uwu

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    This too shall pass and whatnot.