Does having a friend with your name affect your friendship with them?

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  1. Xaale Sylph of Hope

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    Sorry for the extensive title, but I was wondering if anyone had a friend with the same name as you and if it influenced your relationship with them. Was having the same the reason that one of you started a conversation? Is it kind of akward that you have a friend with the same name, or does it bring you closer together?

    I have a really uncommon name, so I've only known one person in all the thirteen years of my life that had my name. We were kinda friends, but having the same name was really, er, akward for me. I don't know why, but...

    So I'd like to know if anyone else has a friend with their name and if it influences your friendship.​
     
  2. Ashwa <3 Hollow Bastion Committee

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    My name is very common for girls so meeting someone with the same name doesn't really affect my relationship with them.

    Even if I had an uncommon name and met someone with the same name, I don't think it would really affect the relationship. To me, a name really has nothing to do with a relationship. A name shouldn't matter.
     
  3. Hubba-Bubba-Bubbles Hollow Bastion Committee

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    i don't have any friends with the same name but i don't think it should affect your realashonship in any way
     
  4. Azure Flame Banned

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    I'm friends with a person with the same name as me. It doesn't really affect our friendship. Although we barely see eachother nowadays, since he lives in a different state.
     
  5. Xaale Sylph of Hope

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    Yeah, my friend lives in another state, now, too. :P Everyone feels a little different, and I guess a lot of people it doesn't affect. My best friend asked me this question, and I couldn't really base it on just myself. So, that's why I was wondering.
     
  6. Daenerys Targaryen ok

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    My friend and I..Both our names are Haley and we've been friends since first grade.and we never have fights.
     
  7. Marluxia13579 Twilight Town Denizen

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    I have a friend with the same name as me. It felt a little weird at first but I wouldn't say it actually affects our friendship all that much.
     
  8. Princess Snow White I feel such an isomniac.

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    I have 3 friends with the same name as me, thought Emily is a very common name, but it doesn't really affect our friendship.
    We just call each other by our last names.
     
  9. GenerationVIII Destiny Islands Resident

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    I have a friend with the same name as me only spelled different... We call each other 1 & 2...

    Unfortunatly, I'm 2...
     
  10. P E A N U T ~*~Never Surrender~*~

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    My name is really common, but I don't have any close friends with the same name, just because we're so different. I don't really think the name makes a difference. Sure, it gives you something to laugh about, but I don't think it would really affect the relationship.
     
  11. Catch the Rain As the world falls down ♥

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    I have known several other girls with my name, but never one who spells it like I do xD

    Hmm I have been friends with some of them xD and not friends with others >_>

    To be honest, having the same name has never really had an affect, except for when I was 6 and there were 4 of us in the same class and we used to get put together all the time :\

    Other than that, I think that if you are friends with someone who has the same name, it generally only seems odd to other people. From my experience anyway :3
     
  12. tofuman Twilight Town Denizen

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    i have 2 friends with the same name as me its not really fun ether because when they come over my mom says brandon and we both are what..............
     
  13. myoblivion King's Apprentice

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    I have a friend with my name :P And its never been a problem. Its actually helped us a lot...
    But now since she changed we arent friends anymore. But thats not because of our names, at times though, it would be nice if my name wasnt so common -.-
     
  14. EvilMan_89 Code Master

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    i'm still their friend but i secretly hate having the same name, because i am referred to as "the other mike" when my friend mike is with me.
     
  15. Hubba-Bubba-Bubbles Hollow Bastion Committee

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    so does that change your relationship or do you just not tell him....lolz i'm kinda curious
     
  16. Mielé Banned

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    I've never met anyone with the name Miele' before so I don't really know what it's like...
    but i'm sure you could still be friends with some one with the same name as you ^-^
     
  17. emerald_flame Traverse Town Homebody

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    I've meet only a few people with same name as me . Its not bad having the same . We just came up with nicknames so we can tell who they're addressing to and such . But other than that it didn't really affect our relationship and it probably shouldn't .
     
  18. Juicy Chaser

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    Iv'e only ever known one person with the same name as me... but we didn't become friends.

    My name's really old fashioned so not many people have it.
     
  19. sakayoyo Destiny Islands Resident

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    my names pretty common.
    so me and my friend has a "chris" handshake
     
  20. EvilMan_89 Code Master

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    not really changing the relationship, it's sort of my secret, i'm just a LITTLE pissed because my friends met ME first but I'm the "other mike"