Dealing with people...

Discussion in 'Help with Life' started by MandyXRiku4ever, Apr 18, 2010.

  1. MandyXRiku4ever Twilight Town Denizen

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    Ok so i know where ever i go there's ALWAYS gonna be nasty people but sometimes its just like _sigh_ really? Do really have to use scarcasm?

    Plus some of them are just such downers....
    i'm getting scared to post anything anymore....
    i'm afraid of getting a negative reputation.........but....
    when ever i get an idea or say something or share i'd like that people wouldn't be like Your stupid. Its wrong. and those times its the same people.

    My Question?

    How do you deal?
    I don't have many choices...
    And i'm not a baby. i just hate the constant negative! and i need help.
    Can i ask without spam or rudeness or scarcasm or all of the above?

    Please and thank you,
    <3
     
  2. Misty gimme kiss

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    Is it your friends that are being like this?

    If that's the case... get new friends. :| That's blunt but it's true.
     
  3. Catch the Rain As the world falls down ♥

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    Best advice I can give you is to be yourself love. People will always find something to complain about because at the end of the day everyone is different and we all like/dislike different things and different ideas.

    I qould much rather be hated for who I am than liked for something I'm not; the pressure of being fake and living in lies isn't worth it.

    If your friends are being overly negative with you I would suggest, as Misty said, finding new friends. Friends are meant to be your support network to help you out when you fall down, they shouldn't be the reason you fall.

    Don't be afraid of posting, you shouldn't be intimidated; you're a member same as everyone else and you have as much right to be here and post as any of us.

    Cheer up, be yourself, and don't be afraid to speak your mind <3 That applies to real life as much as here.
     
  4. SpazticFantaztic >:3 Kingdom Keeper

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    Well it's obviously not your fault. I know quite a few people like that, on this site and off, and I'm probably one of the people you're referring to. It has nothing to do with you, it's just how those people are, and a lot of them flock here because there are others like them and plenty of people to pick on, you being one of the more unfortunate souls that they do that stuff do. This probably isn't helping because I don't have much of a solution, but I want you to know that it's not your fault, it's not a problem YOU have, it's other people.