Child Discipline

yeah


you say that now but wait until you meet my dad....

you will literally **** in your pants!

 

thats kinda weird/gross

 

*Coughchildabusecough*


I am totally against it. Even though I can imagine I myself would be tempted to do this. xD

 

I truly don't think so. I know a kid who was abused to the point where he had black eyes, he may have feared his dad, but he didn't care how he behaved in school, etc. How a kid turns out is truly not on the parent, it's just on the kid...

 

sometimes. but it's sometimes the parent's fault. like if they let them get away with stuff

 

Yeah. Parents are responsible for what they're child is doing and that includes alot of things.

Example: Taking drugs, (parents should have a closer eye on their kid and make sure he's not hanging out with the wrong crowd), underage drinking (again, the same as taking drugs), and underage sexual intercourse.

Parents are responsible of supervising their kids, and yes, it depends on the kid, but at an early age, they are influenced by their parents.

 

Parents can only be so responsible for a kid. Trust me, it's really hard for them. Example... my parents are the greatest in the world (my opinion), but I've done some things that I probably should've thought twice about. In the past three months alone I've had 3 confrontations with police officers, two of which I could've been thrown in the county. We're responsible for our own actions.

P.S.
What defines "the wrong crowd" anyway? I certainly do not consider myself a delinquent, but I do find that I'm associated with many stereotypical "wrong crowd" behaviors.

 

It's really what adults believe their kids shouldn't act like.
But really, there is NO such thing as "the wrong crowd" even though I believe I shouldn't hang with people like that.

 

yea, somewhat. as long as they punish the kids for things they do wrong, like by hitting them.....things shoudl be fine. and the "wrong crowd" would be ppl who's idea of a good time is stealing a car or if they cause trouble. btw....wat did u vote for?

EDIT: nvm, u didn't vote at all. and i didn't know u could check who voted for what.

 

I dont really think of it as child abuse but I think of it as correcting for the better good. Like if the parent tells the child not to do something and they be rebelious and tough and dosent listen to the parents constently telling them not to do something then they deserve a spanking . Heck I got spanked when I was little to discipline me and look at me now! I dont get spanked anymore.

And if a parent cant spank a child how else will they discipline them?

 

Maybe you dont get spanked because you are older now? Lol. Will I think they shouldnt be spanked! I think they should be sent to military school if the parents want to teach em a lesson >D

 

Spanking is like more of humiliation than discipline. Children should be disciplined on the levels of how their children act.

 

Well not exactly because my brother is waaaay older than me and my dad spanks his @$$!

 

Hellz yes kids should get smacked around because you know what, now a day they think that their all that and a bag of chips, but guess what their not. This means that we should show them what the real world is like A SMACK IN THE FACE. By the way Im 15 and I know how those stupid little 8th, 7th, 6th graders, etc. act...

 

I know how they act too, but you have to realize Xigbar, how many f them do you think get abused at home?? A good 50% of them... It's in the child's ability to know right from wrong, not the parent's ability to show it... Becasue children today are smart, they know if they do wrong away from there parents, they won't get beaten...

 

So im a stupid little eighth grader now huh?
I don't think im all that and a bag of chips.In fact I know im not.
I never got smacked around,and I turned out pretty good.
I would like you to bring up evidence to support your statment.

 

Someone get this person out. What makes you say they think they are all that? Oh and what if they do? Ive seen older kids in my bus acting like they are all that! So should I smack him in the face? Anyways kids should be grounded without internet and no tv and they should spend their day in their rooms until a couple of days. The violence wont settle things it will only settle nothing but torture :/

 

So I'm also a "stupid little 6th grader"! HUH! Well, I also never have gotten spanked and I kinda turned out all right. Still got any evidence! HUH! Think that we "younger people" are stuck up snots! I'm offended!

 

Woah.

Woah. This has turned into a complete flame war. Someone states their albeit odd opinion and you go a-wall on him.

Another word and ths is closed.

 

There is no flaming here that I can see.
But I believe one is coming on.....
Anways,I really think people should not hit at all.period.
Violence is wrong,even though it is quite natural.....