I deiced when I met a certain friend who is a guy that we'd stay just friends because I know boys and girls can just be friends....right? I made a deal with him that he could never like me more than a friend and that i wouldn't either, but something went wrong, and so now he likes me more than a friend even though i have someone and he knows that. He says he dosen't care that I have someone I love, because he loves me more then my boyfriend...which I don't know for sure if that is true or not...so, whats a girl to do when your best friend who is suppose to like you only as a friend starts saying he loves you??? I HAVE NO CLUE AND I NEED HELP!!!
Um... I can't really give you heartfilled advice on this one... but don't buy this guy. Cleary... he broke a promise/deal with you. Tell him, as nicely as possible, that the relationship is getting too far. My suggestions, stay away from him afterwards and hang out with a group of friends... Never get caught alone. >< Stay with the guy you have now, since obviously you like your boyfriend more then the best friend. Hm... That's all the advice I have for the time being.
If he's never net your boyfriend, and says he is better than him (your bf), I would say watch out, he's lying. Or supremely cocky. Either way, I would (if I were a woman, lol) be cautious around him - he probably wouldn't be a good boyfriend. I know - my best friend is like that.
ell if he is a great guy then if he really loved you he'd say he didn't mind being just friends but you'd still both be there for eachother...he'd understand.
Well you have two choices I believe personally. But the biggest thing is honesty. My first choice would be if you might like him more than a friend. Wate. If something goes wrong with your current boyfriend he'll still be there wating for you. Second choice is if you dont think you could ever like him, (his looks or personality) tell him straightforward. (not about looks or personality) say, "remember that promise we made?" and say it just doesn't feel right... I hope i helped at all... :) And feel happy that so many guys are after you hehe ;)
