Are you in love?

i'm in a similar situation to jayn. I love my boyfriend, we've been together almost three years, but he lost his job last june and hasn't been able to get one since. He tries hard though, I think that's the difference. He puts in tons of applications each week and I never have to cook or clean. He feels awful that he hasn't been able to help support us financially and it makes him feel like less of a man. I don't mind paying for things, but it would be nice every once in awhile to not have to spend my money. Plus the situation has gotten so bad i'm afraid we might lose our apartment. But that's not related to the topic.

You don't have to be in a relationship to be happy, but i've always enjoyed every minute of it. We've had lots of problems, but it has truly made purrelationship stronger. Pretty sure we can survive anything now, including him losing my pokemon: black game. I cherish every day together. Especially since he'll be over seas in like two years. It's going to be a very very VERY long year once he leaves.

 

Remember kids; there's no such thing as an asexual!

 

Pretty sure he means that he's had no romantic feelings for a girl before.
Which is perfectly understandable.

 

You misunderstand me. I don't limit myself because of my youth. I'm saying that I 'like' him, but to go as far as being 'in love'...i dunno. How am I supposed to know what it is? Do I define it as that sick feeling in my stomach, or being able to feel my heart beating out of my chest? See I would call those 'feelings'...I wouldn't call it 'love'.

 

I wish fewer people would think they are so much cooler because they can do without love.
We've all heard it now, it's nothing to flaunt with. Give folks a break.
Also, if being alone is good enough then you wouldn't care about independence being attractive.

 

maybe, but that really doesn't mean I've met much girls in my life. Sorry to disappoint, but I seriously have not met many girls in my life. More people I've been associated with have been male than female. You do know that even though it's 50%, that still how many people, along with males? I'm pretty sure I can go 17 years without meeting a girl that I like. I don't really care too much about love. Honesty, drama and stuff like that really creep me out, I try to stay away from it. If I met a girl I liked, maybe that would be different, but I haven't so far. Pretty much 95% of my life includes me staying in my house messing around on an electronic device. So no, you can't go calling me a homosexual.
And I know this is the spam zone, but come on, you do know how rude that can be, even as a joke right? I've seriously taken a little offense by that

 

Only those not secure in their own identiy would really take offence, so hey not my problem.

 

oh I'm secure, but I don't think you realize that it's not exactly nice to just go out and call someone homosexual. Do you think you could just say that to someone and think that they wouldn't find anything wrong with it? You can't say that just because someone hasn't found anyone they like, even if they''re 17+. It's rude, and there's no justifying saying it, especially if you're wrong

 

Didn't call you anything, gave you the suggestion of your orientation, never called you it, you seem to have exploded all up in this joint about the entire thing and have thrown an unneeded and frankly rather amusing hissy fit, you must've spent all of 5 minutes online to have no been called a homosexual or even worse before, oh what bubble'd little world you must live and and how pleasant it must be.

P.S I will never ever ever give a single flying fraction of a f'uck if I upset or insult you, keep that in mind.

 

But that's just the thing, there is more often people who complain about being single. There are some people who complain about it constantly, and it does get annoying. Either side is fine, wether you think it's horrible to be single, or you think it is fine. However, having to listen to either side excessively, does get extremely annoying. People should be allowed to feel whatever they want to feel, but they do not have to be up in other people's faces all the time, everyone finds it annoying.

 

let me remind you

You're basically saying I'm a homosexual right here. Especially considering what you put in the second post. You really think I wouldn't get upset over this?

 

I gave you choices, you cancelled out options, left it only to fate I'm afraid.

And no, I didn't think you would get upset, maybe it's because I figured you'd have the maturity to handle some harmless jabbing. Maybe I assumed you've probably been insulted at least once in your life before and would recognise some mindless fun in it's place, or maybe, just maybe and i'm putting money on this one personally, I honesty did not give a lick of care if you got upset or not.

 

Vivi's suggesting it. Not calling you gay straight out.

Its really nothing to get all pissy about either. Some people are gay, whatever. My straight dude friend, who's had more girlfriends than me, has been asked if he's gay before, multiple times. He gets slightly annoyed, but never mad.

 

You don't have to be in love with your boyfriend. I'm just saying that there is no age to know how to love someone.

This is the internet and he suggested you might be gay. Don't be insulted, just brush it off. What does one opinion matter?

 

While I'll agree with you that Vivi's attitude was uncalled for, and that he should stop, why would you get offended by someone calling you homosexual? Are you gay? No, I don't think so.
And if you are, so what?
It's not an insult, it's just a word that has evolved to cuss status for whatever reason, right next to the phrase "I slept with your momma last night!", which we know is probably not true.
Don't take everything so seriously Aqua, life's too short for that.

 

Fact: living is the longest thing any of us are aware when doing, so I'd say it's fairly long.

 

Why would you get upset over something that is not offensive? I told my close friend as a joke that I got a boyfriend. She believed it. Big f'ucking whoop.

 

YOU DID WHAT? Too far man, too ****ing far.