Are you in love?

oh my god drama.

also yes I am in love
with my family, friends (khv people included) and boyfriend.

 

Ok guys, I obviously know the whole thing against comparing people's problems to those living in third-world countries. I'm not saying "You aren't allowed to be sad because you've got things a lot better than other people". I knew saying that wasn't the best idea, but...being exposed to it first hand kinda leaves that impression on you, if you ever see it. I suppose I was trying to give examples of how people can live perfectly well without being in boyfriend/girlfriend relationships, but I could have done it better...

These are really hard questions to answer, and I'm going to say beforehand that I'm probably wrong, but these are just my own interpretations, and they could very well change after having heard someone else's take on the subject.

I think that what I said still stands regardless of what your expectations of life have been built up to be. Nobody can tell you how easy or how hard it will be to find people who do accept you and love you really, but...I don't know quite how to explain it. If you really do want someone to love and love you back, you have to have some real persistence in the idea that, there is someone out there for me, as well as the bravery to confess how you feel about a person in hopes that they'll accept what you feel for him/her and return the feelings. Even if the world is against you, you have to keep some tiny sliver of hope.

I'm really just trying to help you guys keep a positive outlook on it all, and try not to concentrate on how bad it might be to be single. I know what its like: I've never had a girlfriend, whereas everyone I know has had at least one or two. But to me, its not the fact that I've never dated someone, its the notion that I haven't found the same love many other people have. I try to ignore that, and instead believe that I will find that person someday. Sorry for the long post. I don't want you guys to go through the same mindsets I have. Keep your chin up or something?

/failing at motivation

 

Awkward moment when I'm a starving african child

you guys don't have to rub it in

 

i will send you food, child

 

I actually am not single and I have my chin up. When you said "the world is against you", I assumed you meant in general, not that it saw you as unappealing in a romantic sense.

Charisma beats out appearance almost every time. People forget that way too often for my liking.

 

I wasn't offended (though I can't help but wonder why you feel sorry if you thought you did nothing wrong).
I'm sorry for singling you out. It's true that I don't recall you ever saying this before. I guess I just heard it one too many times, from different people.
Just keep in mind that when you say that independence is attractive, you imply that dependence is less so. So technically you are saying that your side is better. Usually that wouldn't matter to me, but I don't know if whether they need a significant other or not is something people can choose. That's why it bothered me.
Calling you out for flaunting wasn't exactly appropriate though, and I apologize for that.

 

A warning to all ye who enter here.

Topic that goes nowhere but enforces people's differences.

 

Fixed that for you. We might as well fit it into a billboard in front of the Spam Zone.

 

Oh believe me I'm eternally grateful for my waifu and wouldn't have it any other way.
I'm just trying to point out a common mindset that people do have.

 

[video=youtube;K7XLnxKlYEo]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K7XLnxKlYEo[/video]

 

Nope.

BECAUSE YOU NEVER RETURN MY CALLS T_T