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  1. childofturin Why?

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    The way I see it, you have several options:

    1) Leave. If it's really bugging you that much, and no one is FORCING you to come here, why stay?

    2) Ignore the guy. What is he going to do, go to your house and start mocking you? He is powerless.

    OR,

    3) Develop an attitude of not caring. If you genuinely don't care what other people say, do, or think about you, trust me, you can deal with anything.

    Trust me on this - I have tried every single one of those things in the course of my life. I find the not-caring attitude works best. But it also takes the most work to keep up. When I started playing KH and making videos to it, my brother started mocking me viciously. He is younger than me, but only by a few years, and kind of a jock, whereas I am a lazy, fat nerd. I eventually learned that he had no real power to hurt me, so I stopped caring what the hell he said. Now, I can tune him out at will.
     
  2. Misty gimme kiss

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    Killing yourself should never, ever be an option. I understand that it's hard for you to ignore comments from members, and if you ever feel that there's something directed personally to you, report it to the staff. But creating a thread asking for a member to be banned simply because he's an ass to you is out of line as well. We're not going to ban Haseo just because you feel insulted by him.

    Sometimes taking some time off can help. Even if it's just a week, or a few days, it will help you clear your mind and calm down. Just put Haseo, or anyone else who is annoying you, on your ignore list.
     
  3. childofturin Why?

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    Another option might be to simply avoid the forums that he frequents.
     
  4. gintasthebest Traverse Town Homebody

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    Yes please....
     
  5. Ultimecia sorceress

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    Did you even read what Misty posted?

    It's not possible to ban under those conditions.
     
  6. jafar custom title

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    Ginta, don't come to the site. Either take a break or leave it forever. You can't make the site what you want it to be. Suicide is not the answer her, anyways. It's a god damn website. Focus on the world around you, and not on people that you will never meet.

    And Shiki, don't. You're just enabling her.
     
  7. gintasthebest Traverse Town Homebody

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    I'm going to request this thread be closed. This thread is just making me want to kill myself even more.
     
  8. Advent 【DRAGON BALLSY】

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    That thread was a joke. Kindly grow up and learn to live with it.
     
  9. childofturin Why?

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    So... because we are not banning someone who is giving ONE PERSON a hard time, we are somehow victimizing you? We are GIVING YOU ****ING SOLUTIONS! Protip: LIFE DOESN'T ALWAYS WORK OUT THE WAY YOU WANT!

    Sorry to be so harsh, but it seems like you need this lesson burned and punded into your head before you will actually hear it.
     
  10. Misty gimme kiss

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    On request of topic creator.
     
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