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  1. gintasthebest Traverse Town Homebody

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    I'm getting really fed up with almost everyone on this site making fun of me. They say it's just a joke but it doesn't seem like it to me. I have an anxiety disorder so I get upset really easily. There have been many times when I wanted to kill myself. Sometimes I regret that I didn't. There's one member who's the most problem. They apologized and said they'd be nice so I was nice to them until they were a jerk again. Haseo, if you're reading this, you're the reason I made this thread! http://www.kh-vids.net/showthread.php?t=74927 This is a thread he made. I don't care if they say it's just a joke. It's not fair that everyone only makes fun of me and noone else. There's only a few people here who I can trust. Haseo should really be banned from this site right away. If not, I might really kill myself and I'm not kidding. I know I've said that before but this is going way too far and I can't take it anymore. If this keeps up, I will be dead by tomorrow. Of course, most of the people on this site would probably be happier if I was dead anyway so there's almost no point for me to live anymore.
     
  2. Scott Pilgrim Banned

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    I can see why people would do that. Well....I would suggest laying low for a while and try not to cause anymore drama (this thread included).
     
  3. Shade Tail Hollow Bastion Committee

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    Take the simpler solution and just leave the site, you don't have to keep coming here if you know people are being complete and utter d*ckheads, and making your life hell.
    Taking your own life is just going WAY WAY too far, so just leave, and if you're on firefox, block the site with an addon called 'BlockSite' just so you know you can't go on here again.

    I can tell that most people would be happy with you leaving, but you'll be doing it for your own good. I just don't want to see you dead Emma.
     
  4. MadDoctorMaddie I'm a doctor, not a custom title!

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    I'm so sorry you feel that way. I don't know if this helps, but I've been in the same situation, I was continuously picked on in school, especially pre- and elementary. The teasing will stop someday, it might actually make you in to a stronger, yet kinder person. Happened to me, at least.

    Killing yourself won't help, this is something too little to make you consider suicide. In my opinion, there shouldn't actually be anything in this life that would make someone want to kill themselves, life is too short as it is.

    Maybe you should take some time off the site, and experience new things. It's possible that someday you might be laughing at some of the things that bother you now. Don't let the other guys get to you, they probably are joking around (even though it isn't a funny joke) and don't actually mean any harm to you. Try to hang on, and try to see the lighter side of this, even though it isn't easy. ​
     
  5. Smackdoodle McGiggles Hollow Bastion Committee

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    i have thought the same way you have and when you endure it and you let it roll off your back you become that much stronger... i may not know you as well as the others but i can totally relate to you. people who have attempted suicide later said they were glad they didnt kill themselves. and life is like a road, somethings you hit rough spots, but eventually it all smoothens out. just dont go near haseo of he is insulting you. those instances you learn who truly is your friend. and it makes you that much closer to them.
     
  6. Scott Pilgrim Banned

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    Agreed. If it bothers you so much to the point were you want to get violent, you can always take a break. I say take a break because I wouldn't want to see you leave. No one would. If you don't want to go that far then just deal with it for time being and just be a mature human being by ignoring it all. That thread was a harmless joke. No one wanted to actually hurt your feelings, but if that happened, then I'm sorry. I hope you can get over the fact that some people in the spam zone can get really offensive. You just need to stop taking things so seriously in there.
     
  7. riku lover Banned

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    Emma is my best friend and I know she won't leave this site. Haseo is the main problem and she probably will kill herself if Haseo isn't banned from this permanently. I agree with Emma about Haseo being banned. He's been a jerk even after he apologized and said he'd be nice. Right now from the look in Emma's eyes is either Haseo is banned or she kills herself.
     
  8. Smackdoodle McGiggles Hollow Bastion Committee

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    i dont take suicide with the slightest thought of a joke because of an experience with a friend... i agree with riku lover and even if ginta isnt serious i dont doubt anyone for a second about dealing with those conditions
     
  9. riku lover Banned

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    I can tell by the look in her eyes that she will kill herself if Haseo isn't banned. I don't want Emma to kill herself but it seems like the only way that will happen is if Haseo is banned. I vote Haseo is banned for a little while so Emma won't kill herself. She'll probably calm down a bit if Haseo is banned.
     
  10. Smackdoodle McGiggles Hollow Bastion Committee

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    deletion of thread that caused this problem might help too
     
  11. riku lover Banned

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    Another one would probably be made though. Right now, I just want Emma to not kill herself. I see the look her eyes like she's about to cry. She has that 'I'm going to kill myself if Haseo isn't banned' look.
     
  12. Smackdoodle McGiggles Hollow Bastion Committee

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    has anyone thought to tell a admin? as to not allow him to make new threads?
     
  13. riku lover Banned

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    There's no staff members online.
     
  14. Smackdoodle McGiggles Hollow Bastion Committee

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    that can be fixed when they come online.
     
  15. riku lover Banned

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    When a staff member is online, they should either talk to Emma and Haseo or just ban Haseo.
     
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    Don't let the site get to you that much. Taking your life because of it would be bad as well. I actually hardly see you around or talk to you, but still would not want you to go. Maybe taking a break like renegade said would help too.

    Riku Lover I know you're her friend, but all you're posts basically say ban Haseo =/

    If you're a close enough friend try to at least make her feel better or cheer up.
     
  17. gintasthebest Traverse Town Homebody

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    I will be happy and not want to kill myself when Haseo is banned.
     
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    Emma think of it this way, your life can only get better from here.I know this because i learned it the hard way.You are wanted around here, besides me theres innumerable others who like you and want you on the site.Don't let haseo get to you.He didn't mean it.I know haseo, he obviously didn't mean to do this much damage.
    I'll PM him about it.
     
  19. khmage1918 King's Apprentice

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    Emma! Don't commit suicide! What you do also affects others, and I've already got enough drama in life, don't just destroy my life, as well as others, because Jeffery got to you! I've always said, stay away from the site a couple of days, try doing something else... Maybe even put him on your block list. He's a nice guy, but he always jokes a lot... News flash, that's how a lot of guys are. I have cousins who do the exact same thing! Can't you just just smile and say "Whatever, it's not like it matters" to the joke!? I mean, really! I'm giving you these options because I care, and you're still important to me. Though we may not get along that well now, and barely see each other, You still are important. I carry something from you to remember... But one thing I'll never forget is the scars and the water balloons.... -_-;;
     
  20. Sumi suicidé

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    AHH! NO. YOU WILL NOT KIll YOURSELF. I FORBID IT.
    suicide is NOT the answer. If you hate him that much, then ignore it. Cyber bullying is terrible and all, but take a step up and realize that: HE DOESN'T KNOW YOU IN REAL LIFE. All he can do is hurt your feelings, and don't knock me cuz I know how bad it does hurt, but you need to realize that it's the internet. Some people are just asses and everybody else just has to deal with it. Sadly, you're a member of the group that has to deal. So deal.
    K? *hugs*​
     
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