Alright, well I never thought I would ever need to use this section, but I was wondering about something. There's this girl I've talked to and gone on a couple dates with for about a month , and we get along great. We listen to the same music, like the same movies, literaly finish each others sentences (sounds funny and stupid, but seriously.) It seems like we really connect, but whenever I'm with her, and she has a friend with her, usually the mean, popular, ****tly ones (not always, but I see it more) , she stops being nice to me and always points out all the bad about me. I was wondering why it's like that, cause I know for sure I don't do it to her. Why is that?
She is the type of person that tries to actually impress her friends by being mean to you and getting away with it. Don't dump her yet,I would talk to her about it first. If she ignores you and continues to be a bitch to you in front of your friends;She obviously doesn't care that much about you. There are other extremely nice people in the world that won't treat you like that...It would be better for you to move on with your head held high. It might be her friend too.
It's possible from the fact that if the two girls are best friends, she might be jealous. It's happened to me before as well. I was dating this guy, and my friend was absolutely hating him more and more by the second I was dating him. Just try to catch her when she's not around. It's better to get along by yourselves, amirite?
Talk to her about this, if you guys get along so great when you two are alone then tell her that's how you'd like her to act when she's with her friends. If nothing changes I would try to find someone else who doesn't act two-faced just because her friends are around.
It's the way life is. No one wants to be on the bottom of the chart. She does these things to manage a good rep in her life. Here's what you do. Talk to her about that you don't like it. If ignoration continues, leave her. She has no intention of being with you. It's better to look for the new things when the old hates you.
well im just guessing but if you're a jr. high student most (not all) girls will date a guy just to be respected and have a reputation. well at least thats the way it is in southern illinois. Just talk to her like the others are saying but i wouldnt recommend bringing up what i said.
*agrees with others* if u can't talk out this problem with her than there's no point in staying with her.
