Well, this isnt a thing for help with life, this isnt a current event, and this isnt really a debate XD its just somthing up for discussion XD. Well, I sopose we all go through changes in our life. chances are we will go through many in our lifetime. Now, I am not talking about puberty or anything, I am talking about changing how you are, how you act, ect. Well, I feel recently ive gone through a change. I feel different, I act different, I like different things than I did before, and yea. Ive basicly gone from teachers pet to class clown in a matter of... a few months at most? one or two? but meh, whatever XD. What I wanna know is, have any of you, the members of KHV, gone through a change, if so, was it for better or worse, and do you regret it? This question has been buzzing around my head for awhile, so I figured post it, and see what happens XD lol.
Yes, I have. In fact, I was voted Most Changed in my Senior Class. I went from that secluded kid in the Alcove who just sat, read, and ignored people to having one of the highest charisma ratings in the school. Somehow it seems that everyone at least knows my face and voice. And even weirder is that I don't think I've changed at all.
I definitely have. When I was in elementary school I was very popular and vocal (often to the annoyance of my teachers), athletic, etc etc. That all kind of changed probably towards the end of middle school, where I just for whatever reason became ridiculously secluded and I'll admit it, pretentious. Lately though I've been at a really great point in my life and I've been trying to reinvent myself to be a better person. It's a tough process, especially having lived in this town for my whole life, I feel like I'm kind of trapped in a lot of the people at my school's preconceived notions about me. Plus I've still quite a few issues I need to sort out, haha. But I'm trying. I'm really not even sure what the catalyst was, I just kind of realized one day that if I wanted to change, I could change.
God yes. I tend to go through these phases where I'm more of an ******* than usual, maybe once every seven or eight months. Also, recently, I've been more into stuff that, normally, I hate. It's just something that happens, I guess, and it's probably good that it happens. We'd all get bored if we were the same for our entire life.
Throughout my years of life, I've definitely changed, for better or for worse, that's for the people who watch me to decided. I'm not going to play on my violin here and spill my guts for a sob story, but life's been hard, not just for me, but for my family as well; we've been through a lot of stuff and some of it hardens a person or softens them up. Then there's school... I remember in middle school I let this one girl push me around a lot because I thought she was my friend, but now I see that she only made my life miserable. Now, if that would have happened, I would have definitely taken a stand against her and fight, but even if I could go back in time, I don't think I would make something else better happen to me because all of it made me a stronger person. There are some things that I regret now that I should have done a long time ago, but I'm unable to change that, and I like the way I am now.
Middle school, went through my bratty stage. I lost all of my great friends, I made friends with the bully bratty kids, and, well, took a while to get out of it, and make new friends, and apologize for hours because of how much of a jerk I was. So many changes happen, with your family, friends, etc., it's all pretty hard. Personal (won't post them on here) and public, it's for the better or worse.
Yeah ive changed recently. And i know this will sound...cheesy but a lot oof it is because of my boyfriend. As those who gave advice know,ive known him for 9 years and liked him for 2. We have now been together for just over a week now,but we`ve known each other for so long things have gone...well quickley. As he is half Japenese,the earthquake has really effected him,badly,as he lost one of his best friends,but his grandparents are still missing. And he has,obviosly,been very upset. But being there for him,seeing him need me,has really changed the way i see everything. I guess having someone who you trust completly and who trusts you does that. We`ve both cried,but as he is really upset,i find myself defending him,no longer being afraid or intimedated by all the bullies or sadistic teachers,but standing up and speaking. Compared to me 3 months ago,when i wouldnt even raise my hand in class this is a massive change,for the better.
umm slightly yes i have gone from the kid who was always picked on and hated for no reason to the person who tries to get people to hurt him because he hates being liked by others. meh it's a change
