a friend or a beloved...

thank you for the advice... as well as i know her.... we both are part of an anti bully organisation, she has a lots of friends, she's not particularly shy and often gives advices to others... me?.... i hide from people...
i really appreciate the advice

 

No problem. She's part of an anti-bullying organization and gives advice? She's starting to sound nice to me. Well, if you want to talk to her some more, try asking her a question about bullying, perhaps... If you're hiding from people, she probably doesn't know much about you. Try introducing yourself. By the way, best of luck to you! :)

 

thanks... well there is a lot i know about her and what she likes but i hate showing myself in public so it's hard for me to be seen with people...

 

Why, that's easy advice there! If that stops you with talking to her or anything, just work hard over it! I know it's tough, but come up with reasons to be shy. Is there any reason to be shy? Just work out the problems if there are reasons and maybe that will help.

 

i'm ugly, stupid, weird, tallest in class and...strongest in class, vegeterian who loves nearly nothing else than animals, love darkness, head hurts extrodinarly by light, feel stressed in cities, hates smokers, sport a lot but uninterested in watching, i'm odd, have a big ugly birthmark on my right leg, don't wear jeans or tight clothes and i hate dolls... does that give any clues? i like to play the piano and draw a lot too and scaring people is a little of a hobby to me so i'm used to hiding... but i'l never scare her...

 

Alright, I see some simliar things that I have there.
I'm tall, I'm strong, bright light hurts, I hate smokers, I play sports but watching them puts me to sleep, I have 146 volumes of manga that I've spent money on despite the fact that the only people that I can talk about them with is people I don't even know online, I have vitiligo, and I don't like tight clothes or dolls either. I've been playing the piano for ten freakin' years and drawing for about that long too.
People run from me in the hallways sometimes. And I go invisible a lot in school.

So a word of advice: You may not be confident, but still. Look at what you have. You're tall and strong. That means (and God forbids this happens) if this girl gets attacked or something, you could help her. You're a vegitarian and love animals. Most girls don't like to talk about meat (trust me, I'd know; whenever there's some form of meat for lunch, I'm the only girl out of my friends eating it) and love animals. Even I like animals. Your birthmark makes you unique. No one else has the exact same thing you do, and you should be happy because of that.
Just talk to her and start off slow. Ask her if she'd like to go with you to get some food or something after school or go to a movie together. If all goes well, work your way up to an actual date.

 

thank you for the advice... as a girl what would you want from a guy?
(just so i know)...and i really appreciate the help...

 

Well, considering I'm not an "average" girl, what kind of personality does the girl you like have?

 

well you can see a little from the other posts. otherwise she's calm, nice, cute and doing pretty well in school.
you can check out more in the thread if look around a little.
although i have talked to her a little before i haven't presented myself much. we have worked together a little though. her favorite colour is green.

 

You have to be positive! No girl would want a depressed boyfriend...unless the girl your talking about happeneds to be emo...

 

hey...i'm not a complete emo... i don't dress dark, listen to emo rock and i don't have dark hair...
i just suck that's all. oh and no, she's not emo

 

Now with that attitude you won't be getting any girls. I can tell by your posts that this girl wants a confident guy. Tell yourself that you know you can do it, otherwise you won't be able to.

 

ok...bit can i really? does it help if you sport a lot and play a lot of different instruments..

 

Well, sure. Anything that you're good at that makes you feel good about yourself. It can be anything really, as long as it makes you feel confident.

 

oh? well then i have nothing...
well i stand by my word and when i have made up my mind about somethin then i rarely change it.

 

Again dude, talk to her. Find common interests and go from there.

And you REALLY need to be confident with yourself. Everyone's unique and has their own special talent, and maybe you just haven't found out what yours is yet. :3

 

hmmm....special talent....my abilty to sneak...yay...

 

Oh, you're stealthy? That's a great talent. Very practical, plus it's just cool ^_^.

 

Sorry

Hello there, you know who i am...
i think u should go for it ^^ :kiss:

 

to impress girls with!!?:yelling:

sorry...:(
i think from here on that it's doomed for me and her....
think i should give up?

well i could think of you as a friend formely called vampires are our friends but otherwise...