what do you do?

Discussion in 'Help with Life' started by vampirelover, Jul 30, 2009.

  1. vampirelover Merlin's Housekeeper

    Joined:
    Mar 27, 2009
    Location:
    In my mind...
    6
    23
    So what would you do if there were two people ou thought you liked. One thinks your going out with them, and so does the other. You try to tell one that your not going out with them and you decide that you want the other to think your going out because you really want to be with that person, but things dont work and they both end up thinking your their new honey. So what do you do? Tell both that you dont want either, just run away from both, or tell one that you just want to be friends, and keep the other as your new honey? I HAVE NO CLUE SO PLEASE TELL ME!!!:why?: :crybaby:
     
  2. Toshi Banned

    Joined:
    Apr 27, 2007
    Location:
    Greece
    123
    924
    You have both, unless you can't handle it.
     
  3. Luna Lovegood nani panda-kun

    Joined:
    Jun 13, 2007
    Gender:
    Female
    Location:
    Shirokuma Cafe
    294
    No. :B(:


    You're gonna have to tell one. Either that, or let go of both of them. If you for some reason try to hide each of them from the other, it will be a big burden on your conscience, and they will find out eventually.
     
  4. Daenerys Targaryen ok

    Joined:
    Apr 4, 2007
    Gender:
    Female
    873

    Definately not.Cheating isn't the answer.

    Tell the one you don't care for that you really just wanna be friends or that you don't like them in the type of way to be in a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship with them.
    Even though you may not think it,you are actually in a good position.
    You are the one "holding all of the cards" if you follow me,you are the one who is making the decision.
    So,yes,it might be hard for you do;but I don't advise that you run away from your problems,because it never seems to work out for anyone and you can't ingnore them;so just go out with the one you like,and tell the truth to the one that you don't.

    Hopefully the person won't take it too hard and will move on,like you.
     
  5. StarkMad Banned

    Joined:
    Jul 25, 2009
    Location:
    living in a computer.
    7
    129
    Eh. Wrong answer.

    What you should do is this:
    stop and ask yourself "which one do I really like? Which one can I see a future with?" and whatever your heart tells you to do, do it.
    You go to the other one and be truthful. look him/her in the eyes and say something like this: "You're an awesome person and I like you a lot, but looking back at my decision, I think I made a choice that I wasn't actually sure of. I'm sorry I lead you on and I hope we can still be friends, but I don't think we can be a thing. Not now at least." Always be nice about it ._. If you're nice and courteous, you gain more respect. Respect is the key to a good relationship, I find. Well, one of them. Hope that helps, bro.

    She's got the right idea :)