my gf broke up with me for no reason. i seriously don't know why. got any pointers to get over it? PS: please, no mean comments.
Depends on how close you were to this girl. I think the only way to get over it is to get over it in time. Just wait till the pain leaves you.
do anything to keep your mind off the breakup. my sis was through the same thing they were together for 3 or 4 years he even proposed and they were fiances for about an year and now there apart and it seems like my sis is alot happier cuz of it. she kept the breakup out of her mind by hanging out with friends. if your still upset with the breakup after reading this just remember there is someone out there for anyone this is just a sign that that girl was not the one.
I'm not speaking from personal experience here but the best thing would be to focus on work/school. I say both because I don't know about you so I'm covering the bases here. I know when I'm going through some heavy times, I like to occupy my mind so I don't think about what's troubling me. Granted this only works if you have something to do. Some things take time.
Then all you can really do is wait. If you think that maybe you can salvage the relationship or even just remain friends then that's great, but otherwise, I have to agree with everyone else and say just try to move on & keep your mind off of things. If she wants out then she wants out, no matter how difficult it might be for you--I'm sure it's not easy for her either.
Well, no one can really tell you what you did wrong if we don't know anything about the details of you two dating. But I honestly don't think that friends from early childhood should date anyway. Teenage friendships? Yeah, because there's bound to be some sort of attraction if you're really close on an emotional level with the person, whether you've kept it inside or have chosen to ignore the feelings with the thought that they may not be returned. Only time can really heal you, sorry for being unoriginal. But my first time being broke up with was after a year of dating a girl, well we took a break because she treated me like ****, then we dated again and I suppose I took advantage of her but I convinced myself it was love. Maybe you were in a similiar situation and just didn't realize it. Whether or not you want to believe it, there's always another.
The best advice that I can give is to move on, but only once you're ready. As I've told many other people, be sad now, because if you bottle it up and force yourself to move on, you'll just end up breaking down later.
