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Discussion in 'Help with Life' started by khhottie30, Jan 15, 2009.

  1. khhottie30 Twilight Town Denizen

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    I've been feeling very bad lately because my boyfriend dumped me. What makes it worse is that he did it over MySpace instead of in person or over the phone. I told some of my friends that I was over him, but I know I'm not. I cry everytime I hear a love or break-up song, and I just feel so bad because I wrote this song for him, and...

    I'm sorry. I feel stupid and everything, and he said the reason he broke up with me was because we didn't get to see each other a lot and that it just wasn't working out.

    I've already cried to my mom about a gazillion times, and I've kind of...
    cut myself and tried to make myself throw up.
     
  2. LilRice King's Apprentice

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    aww im sorry to heard that.. but that isn't a good enough reason to break up with you just because you don't see each other often.. i only see my girlfriend once a week and we manage, its alright you'll find a better guy that will love you, there are plenty of guys out there you just have to keep searching.
     
  3. robert the yogurt Traverse Town Homebody

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    Please don't beat yourself up. Beleive me if he really does love you he'll go back to you. If he doesn't then I can think of two possibilitys maybe three 1)He used to love you but changed his mind 2)(This one is pretty unlikeyly) He just used you to say he had a girlfriend 3)He could have been forced to stop dating you by influence from friens, foes or family
     
  4. khhottie30 Twilight Town Denizen

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    Probably the second one. I was his first girlfriend, and I kind of ave-gay im-hay y-may irginity-vay.
     
  5. daxma Hei Long: Unrivalled under the Heavens

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    summer this is serious.Have you told Sarah about this yet because she'll want to know.you don't need a love song,you need angry and intense songs to boost your spirit up.turn the music up full blast:
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xSPFNq2KsFE
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bmWY28ITGfY
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wDhpfCShvBA&NR=1

    Turn the sadness into rage and expell the rage with action like the gym or going running or punching a punching bag.Expell everything out of you.Let Sarah help you through it, then you'll be OK.

    ya you said it on the family thread.
     
  6. Sexy Sheva Banned

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    i am gonna slap you at school on tuesday D:


    you don't EVER hurt yourself ;~;

    <333 sweetie, you can do so much better than that, and don't you dare cry over him, he's not worth it D:

    guy's are never worth the heart break ;_;

    like i said, he's a doodoo head 3<
     
  7. khhottie30 Twilight Town Denizen

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    You're right.

    Well, I guess I'll be joining the Singles Club with Brooke S. and Ashley F. on Tuesday.
     
  8. daxma Hei Long: Unrivalled under the Heavens

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    Don't forget me lol!
     
  9. khhottie30 Twilight Town Denizen

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    ...And apparently, Adam.
     
  10. daxma Hei Long: Unrivalled under the Heavens

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    Of course i'm single at the moment.
     
  11. khhottie30 Twilight Town Denizen

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    I'm kinda happy being single. I can play the field.
     
  12. Styx That's me inside your head.

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    No one guy is worth hurting yourself for.
    You'll get over him. It'll take some time but he wasn't the right person for you and you'll realize that. Others and better roam this earth. They always do.
     
  13. Luna Lovegood nani panda-kun

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    ^ Precisely.
    I'm sorry to say it, but if that's how you treat breakups, you shouldn't really be dating. How is cutting yourself or making yourself throw up going to solve anything? No guy is worth that. If you're not going to ask him why he really broke up with you (if you think he's not telling you everything), move on. It may be hard, but you can't dwell on the past, especially like this.

    ♥ Hope everything works out.
     
  14. In_the_Twilight Twilight Town Denizen

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    He broke up with you over myspace!? Wow...that's pretty low...
    Somebody should slap him just for that.
     
  15. khhottie30 Twilight Town Denizen

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    My mom said he's a wuss for breaking up with me that way.
     
  16. daxma Hei Long: Unrivalled under the Heavens

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    well it is hard to break up in person.I've seen it happen and it's never ended pretty.
     
  17. khhottie30 Twilight Town Denizen

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    Well, yeah. I'd probably end up crying a whole lot.

    And probably start yelling at him.
     
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    Don't worry sweetie! Tuesday me and you can go around the school and flirt our asses off! 8D
     
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    i know what you mean, my first GF broke up with me by text. i knw its embarrassing.
     
  20. Magick ~Meaner then my demons~

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    If he doesn't say it to you in person, he's a coward, and if he says the distance thing is too much, he doesn't love you. You can do better then him, I know you can.