Well I don't know how many of you knew about somebody that I liked.I posted my little problem in the Help With Life thread.I'll just start from the beginning. Last year in August and September,I met a boy(I'll give him the name Kenny for this).And in November and December I met a different boy(I'll give him the name Ricky for this).When I met Kenny,I thought I liked him.But it was all in my head,I guess.He became my partner for Geometry last year.Our teacher made us sit really close.It was kind of uncomfortable.And okay whatever I got to know Kenny and all that.But as we got a little closer he began to touch me.He would try to put his hand on my leg and I wouldn't let him.Then we stopped being partners,we sat in different sides of the room.We stopped talking after that.And after all of this,I began to notice he would sometimes look at me.Like stare at me.I would ignore it and what not. Then in November I changed my 2nd and 4th period.It was for a different reason.I wanted to have these classes.And in my 4th period,that's where I met Ricky.You know we talked and became really good friends.He would always make me laugh and everything.Then I began to fall for him.And in the middle of the mester I found out that Ricky and Kenny are friends.They hang out together.But it didn't matter to me.But then Ricky started hugging me and being very sweet to me.And whenever Ricky would hug me in front of Kenny,I noticed Kenny would just glare at the both of us.And I'm just guessing that maybe Kenny likes me.But I really don't know. And so yeah.I like Ricky and I think Kenny may like me.But Ricky has a girlfriend so yeah.And a friend has told me I should go out with Kenny.Too many things.
Yes! Another lovology question! Ricky has a girlfriend, yes? Then he is a really sweet guy who is a genuine friend. As for Kenny, he either likes you or wants to psyche you out. Most probably he likes you. If he does, just say you just want to be friends, and stick by your word! Stay friends with Ricky too, that way, you have no screw-ups, no fights and at the end of the day, you're happy!
The thing is,I don't talk to Kenny anymore.It just bothers me the way he looks at Ricky and I when Ricky hugs me.Kenny and Ricky are really good friends.And if both of them do like(I'm not saying they do,it's just a feeling) then yeah something could happen there.I've had a feeling that Ricky has liked me before.He has told me so many sweet things.And he tells me he loves my smile.And what I'm really afraid of is that,I could jsut end up liking Ricky until I graduate from high school.And if that does happen then I just might end up falling in love.And I don't want that to happen again.
I would wait for Ricky to break up with his girl friend. Just be nice back, not to cause the breakup. Kenny had his chance but he was being to touchy-feely. Not your problem. Don't go out with Kenny, he doesn't respect you as a person to touch you like that. High School? Relationships don't last long.
Kenny was being sexually abusive to you at the beginning and you should stay away from him. Chances are, if you date him, he will continue to be like that, so just do what you're doing now. I can't really help you with Ricky though, so that's the extent of my advice.
Oh trust me,I'm staying away from Kenny.Ricky's relationship with his girlfriend has been lasting long.Some time at the end of last year was their one year anniversary.I just wish I could tell Ricky how I feel but I'm just afraid of being rejected.And I've felt that before.It felt horrible.And I don't want to have that feeling again.
I would suggest going to some other boy and dating them. When you can't decide between 2 things pick neither!
Well, you are smart to avoid Kenny who clearly is thinking with the other head. However, I would have to say that the best advice I could give you is to also stop looking at Ricky as more than a friend and search elsewhere for some guy you like. He has a girlfriend he's been going out for a year and unless he breaks up with her, it's not right of you to be around him and giving him hugs etc when you feel as you do. If this girl finds out, she would really be upset at Ricky and you and well, put yourself in her shoes. He's a good guy but it's also not good to make him have to 'consider' breaking up with her because you like him. Most guys will either say no outright or some will be like 'oh, she likes me so I can use this and get more attention'. So he doesn't need to be put in that position either. In the end, you probably should move off Ricky, be his friend if you can but try to look elsewhere for someone who is actually not with someone else and/or wait till maybe out of some fortune, he breaks up with the girl. Otherwise, you just bring drama into the whole picture. There will be some people that are just really great guys or girls out there and we can take the moment to go 'damn, wish that was me' with the person, but in the end we can appreciate them for who they are and move on. There are other great people out there to find which you won't have to break up people to get with or put your own self-esteem on the line.
Well I was going to tell Ricky that I liked him today,through text(it would have felt a lot easier and I guess less painful).But I couldn't do it.I closed my phone before I could even put hi on the text message.
