I don't want to just 'post my problems away' on a KH-V Thread, but it looks like I'm doing that, since I can't really vent to anyone else. Well, it all starts with Hannah. She been a friend of mine since second grade, being there for me since puberty. She's the sort of girl you would glare at if you were a girl, and stare at if you were a guy. She's very flirtatious, getting a lot of guys to like her, and a lot of girls to hate her. But, she's my friend, and I have to like her. She's known to be a Whore by my friends, and myself, getting guys everyday, meeting guys on internet as well. Last weekend, (December 12, 13, and 14) Hannah and my other friend Jennifer (We'll get to her later) were planning on going to the Skate Park Friday. (December 12) I told Hannah to call me if they were going, so I can join them. Never received a call Friday, Saturday, or Sunday. Hannah's been with this guy lately. Max, his name is. He's nice, I think, I've never met him. He's a Junoir, making him even more a hit for Hannah. (With her, the older you are, the better.) Well, they've been together for about two weeks until Tuesday. Then came along Denis. He's a Sophmore, and just moved here from another District. He's skater, and cute. Has ADD, and loves to be very random. Anyway, that was his first day here, Tuesday, and Hannah already flirting with him. They were holding hands by Wendsday, and dating by Thursday. They didn't know much about eachother in my own opinion, and needed time. But, I was sort of just letting things happen. Even though I was sorta mad at her when I found out they went to the Skate Park last Friday without me. My friends were getting upset at her though, and whining at me for it. And I have to admit, I was getting pretty pissed at her myself. She was dragging a new kid on the floor, like another chew toy for a dog. I actually felt bad for the kid. But anyway, my friends convinced me enough to not be friends with her anymore, making me get more and more ticked off when I see them together. So then, Wendsday, I finally had the balls enough to call her over, after seeing the two together, holding hands. (Remember, THURSDAY is when they were 'Officially Dating'.) Hannah came over quietly, not knowing what was going on. But she knew I was pissed, because I yelled it from a far, sounding really mad. Here is a qoute by qoute of what happened; Green is me, black is Hannah. Ris: "I'm done." Hannah: "Okay." Ris: "I'm done being friends with you anymore." Hannah: "Okay." Ris: "I hate how you ditch me," Hannah: "I never ditched you!" Ris: "Yes you did!" Hannah: "When?" Ris: "You did Friday, when you said that you were going to call me when you were going to the Skate Park, and you didn't." Hannah: "Yeah I did!" Ris: "Oh no you didn't. I checked my cell phone, and my house phone. You never called." Hannah: "..." Ris: "And I hate how you flirr with every guy you meet." Hannah: "I do not!" Ris: "You f*cking liar! You do too!" Hannah: "He grabbed my hand first!" (Refering to before about Denis and Hannah holding hands) Ris: "You encourage it." Hannah: "..." Ris: "I'm done." Then I walk away, yelling 'I'M DONE!' when everyone is sort of staring. I then ran into my friends, who were all hysterical in questions of what happened. I told them later though. I'll post my other problems later, in another thread. But I really want to know if I did the right thing with this problem.
I think it's great that you stuck up to her like that. If she ditches you for some guy that she doesn't even know, then she isn't worthy of having you as a friend. I think that it's great that you stuck up for yourself and let her know how stupid she's acting.
Well, thanks. I hope I did well. I just think it was alittle rude that I did it that way... But hey, I'm always nice. I have to d something mean once in a while. :|
...a whore? nevermind........yeah, sounds like she's just a guy-crazy girl i'd leave her be, and when i am in need of flirts, i'd go to her, that's bout it. got the same problem here, a girl who LOVES to flirt with all the guys (even me o.o) so, i'd just be a little bit like...yeah bye witch!
Haha. I remembered that, I was there. Anyway, of course you did the right thing, Hannah deserved to get yelled at for the whore she is. I never knew she was liked that until you had to tell me. Besides Hannah also doesn't deserve a friend like you, I mean, like you said this isn't the first bad thing she has done to you. She was making me mad of how she was all over Denis. But I still don't think they are dating, every time I ask him, he says they aren't. I could be wrong but I hope I'm right =(
Well, i'm guessing you will have to wait to see how things unfold. hopefully you didn't embarass her, there is no way she will suck up her pride if you did embarass her.
Yeah, RieRen has been there since fourth grade? Lol. I never really explained that she's my Childhood Friend, did I? ._. Lmao.
Hmm... Yelling at people makes things worse. Trust me when I say you need to go talk to her again calmly. I had a friend who really ticked me off and I yelled at her and she ran off. We of course talked later on and worked things out. Talking will seriously straighten your problem out. You need to go back and hear her side. If it sounds completely illogical then most of the time you can assume that she's not worth the stress.
