Remembering them

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  1. Rhoppergaurd Banned

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    This is probably in the wrong section...
    Anyone in your family died? Friends? You can come here anad say something to them.

    Dear Dad, what can I say? You're really special to me! you brought me up...All until 2003...when the bridge accident happened. i wish I can see you again...life would probably be better with you. I want a Male to play football with, not a female like Laila...I hope your enjoying it up there.
    - Kane
     
  2. Stardust Chaser

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    Yeah, this is in the wrong section. ._. Probably would be fitting in the Help With Life section or something. Don't worry, someone will move it to the right place.

    I'm really sorry about your dad though. The only family members of mine that have died was my grandmother and two of my dogs... I miss all of them =/.
     
  3. Rhoppergaurd Banned

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    It's okay. Oh, sorry.
     
  4. Misty gimme kiss

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    to General Discussion. :3
     
  5. Flyn Pnut Banned

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    I'm good at football though, your just a year above me... we're about the same probably. I feel sorry about your Dad ... Mine's still alive (we're step).
     
  6. Daenerys Targaryen ok

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    I actually think this is a good topic.

    Okay.

    Dear Nana and Papa:

    I'm sorry I didn't get to speak with you before you left.
    I wish I could have,it's been awhile.I miss you being here for me;and I miss you calling me randomly to "see how school is going".
    It has been hard without you,and sometimes I cry to myself wishing you were here for me again.
    Holidays and birthdays,it will never be the same.

    And although I knew it was bound to happen one day,I still remember you saying to me that your dream was to see me get married.You will,although just not in the flesh.

    I am still missing you everyday,and I wish for you to be forever peaceful.

    Love,always,
    Haley
     
  7. Flyn Pnut Banned

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    Dear Grandma,

    I really miss you. You'd always know everything, you lived practically everything, WW1 and 2 and you always had the information. You'd always tell your jokes, and said "Oh, it doesn't matter, next year I'll be dead!". But no-one thought it'd actually happen. Christmas and that'll never be the same and I still can't get to the fact that I'll never see you again, because it feels like I can.

    Sometimes I think your there, and offer to get a cup of tea or just be talking to you. I remember when you'd tell me about the wars and how people acted when they were younger. I remember seeing you in hospital.

    All in all, I'm not really sure what happened to you, I just knew you were in and out for about a year, then you died, but one thing I AM sure about, is that I miss you, and I'd do anything to have you back.

    Love you forever, no matter what,
    Laila.


    Dear Jake,

    Although you were just a dog, you were my first pet and inspired me to do so many things! I remember once, you ran off, and we'd look for you, and just before I'd go to bed, and fall asleep. You'd wake me up and be scratching on the door at midnight. I remember once, you stole my sock, ran around the table with it then went outside and buried it. You made me laugh so much, and from when I was around 2-4 you were practically my best friend.

    But then you died, I was so sad, I cried for ages. You were an awesome present for brithday, but I feel bad saying 'present' ... Anyway, you were mine and I loved you. I still have your ashes, sitting right upon the shelves, I don't want to sprinkle them, I want to keep them forever.

    One day, I'll be back up there with you, so don't forget that. :)

    Lots and lots of love,
    Laila.
     
  8. water mage Kingdom Keeper

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    I think this is an excellent topic Especially to those that need to be express themselves to the ones who they loved and lost.

    Dear Aunt Sharon,
    I could only imagine all of the medical tests you had to go through and then live dialosis almost everyday. It would take a toll on your body and it was tragic that it led to another health concerns. Out of being the youngest on my father's side I didn't think you would go first. I wish I could of spent more time with you as Iam dealing with my own health concerns. I hope you're enjoying your new life with your daughter.

    Love, your neice
    Jill

    Dear Grandpa,
    I miss you so much. Your birthday just passed a few days ago and my grandmother always thinks of you. Wednesday will be her birthday and she will be thinking about you especially when your anniversary comes this September. My family and I are taking very good care of her and so is the nursing staff in the facilty she is currently in. Thank you for giving me the strength to overcome these obstacles that I'm facing in my life right now.

    Love,
    Jill
     
  9. Rissy Queen of the Clouds

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    Dear Pa,

    I've grown up so much since you died, and I feel like we still need your guidance after 3 years have passed. My brother has grown from a todler to a young boy, and myself a girl to a young woman.
    I miss you so much. We still honor you; with every meal, and every anniversary. Even Christmas.
    I wish we could see you once more.

    Love,
    Samantha
     
  10. Juicy Chaser

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    Dear P,

    I still remember the night you died. I had woken up to the sound of my parents talking, and what I was sure somebody sobbing. I crept down the stairs, trying to hear- and as soon as I heard the word "motorbike" I knew. They say you shouldn't curse the dead, but if I saw you again I'd give you a poke for being so foolish just before I hugged you.
    I think there's still flowers at the side of the road, you know.

    ~ H
     
  11. robbie Banned

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    Dear Grandad l hope you are ok and that i know you are in a better place i have allways loved you and i hope you are watching over me i will allways remember in my heart in my mind and my body i love you.


    Love Robbie
     
  12. Mixt The dude that does the thing

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    I'm in a wierd mood today or something because ordinarily I wouldn't do this but...

    Dear Kate,

    I'm sorry that I never really got to know you. You were allways just a face in the crowd to me and I missed out on your beatiful soul. It's now over a year later and your name can still crack away at my heart of stone. If I had only known you passed a name, I don't doubt that my life would be very different. May you be able to finally create your art on a canvas far larger than you had ever dreamed of. And someday be able to share with everyone the meaning of the bleeding tree.

    Love too late,
    Tim
     
  13. Boy Wonder Dark Phoenix in Training

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    Dear Friend,
    I'm sorry we never got to know each other that well. I still regret never hanging out before the accident. You died on my friend's birthday and instead of celebrating it every year, I mourn for you. Your death is the reason I wear a seatbelt when I drive. When they talked about your accident while playing "What Hurts the Most," I shed tears for the first time in years. I still can't listen to that song without getting depressed. When I saw your body before the funeral, I lost grip of reality and went home and cried. You looked peaceful, but different. It was hard to recognize you. THe other day, I found out you used to work where I work at now and I took pride in my job. I'm sorry I wasn't a better friend to you or your sister.
    Rest in Peace.



    Dear Grandpa,
    I met you once as a baby. I don't even remember what you look like, but your death shook me as well. My mother, your daughter, was torn up about things she left unsaid. I"m torn up about not knowing you. Hopefully we'll meet again in the next life. Love always.


    Dear Aunt,
    I never met you. I hate to say it...but I'm glad. If I knew you personally, I don't know how I would have handled your death. I want you to know that the man responsible is behind bars. Whatever he gets is too good for him. I plan on visiting your daughter in the future. I promise to watch out for her. We all miss you, even me, your distant nephew. I hope you went quickly and painless...
     
  14. Jayn

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    Dear Master Chief~

    I never expected it to come to this. With everything that had happened between us I was still so blind to the fact that something was wrong. With everything that happened I was still so selfish. I am so sorry. Looking back on our conversations it was always about me, wasn't it? Even when I attempted to change the focus to you you changed it right back. You were so worried about how I was feeling and how I was and what was wrong with me that you never thought about yourself. We had known each other for so lone. And when I think about it, I hindered you. You should have had nothing to do with me. I should have spared you. But you were so involved in my life and I feel so attached and connected to you that I just couldn't break away, even when I tried. I loved you so much. I miss you. I've been thinking about you a lot. Calling your cell to hear your voice. But you know what? Even though I've cried in the past few days, not once have I cried about you dying...I don't know why. I feel numb and so angry. I feel so mad at everyone and everything about it. When I think of you I just stop feeling anything but my heart beat. I can't express it. I can't tell you how insane it's beginning to drive me. Especially because of all of the promises that were broken between us so unexpectedly. I want to see you. I miss you. I can't ever go to your funeral, your friends are videotaping the memorial for me against my will. I didn't even want to believe the phone call. I need you. You were so focused on me that you lost focus on yourself. You didn't know much about how you felt or what you wanted. I wish I could have seen that and saved you. I wish I could have forced you to see and realize it. I love you so much. I miss you. I'll miss you everyday for the rest of my life.

    I love you. I love you forever. I love you.

    Dear Great Grandma~

    I've spoken so much about your death already but...I just wanted to say something. I love you so much. x3 You're still the only member in my family I've ever actually respected truly. You did so much for us, I'm so thankful I got to meet you and live with you for 11 years. When you died...Well, I changed so much...I just want you to know...I hope you're happier now.

    I love you, Ms. Perfect. >:3


    Dear Angel~

    You still mean so much to me. Thank you for everything that you did. I miss you so much. I wish I had gotten more time with you. Not a day goes by where I don't think about you or what you did for me. You were my best friend and no one has or ever will take that special place I have for you in my heart. Wherever you are, I hope you hear me and receive these prayers and wishes I have for you. The only thing that keeps me from breaking down is knowing that you're in a better place now. Regardless of any religious views I've ever had personally, I just believe and feel that you're in a better, beautiful place.I wish we could have grown up together like we had planned to. I wasn't kidding about making that Calender for you. I still have it. <3 I have everything we ever planned to do together planned out still and I won't forget those dates. I just know how wonderful a man you would have grown up to be. You left us too soon, buddy...I've always been so proud of you, dear...You were the sweetest more selfless person I have ever known even today. You were my angel.


    I love you so very much...


    Dear Knight~
    You were put through so much throughout your life. It's a shame that you had to die the way you did. You were always suffering. Even before being hospitalized. Even before the abuse you had such a hard life. I'm so glad that you're free now but it still hurts me to think about how I lost you. It was a slow and painful process for the both of us, because I think we just knew how it would end somehow. We both knew that you wouldn't make it even though they kept telling us you were getting better. We both knew. I know that we did. Because that last night I saw you, I looked into your eyes and I remember the acceptance I saw there. It robbed me of my breath and you didn't stop me from crying right then. You didn't even say anything. You didn't even ask what was wrong. But you were ready to go and I knew I would have to be as well. I tried so hard to be strong for you. And even now I have to thank you for holding me that day and telling me I didn't have to be. Otherwise I know I would be so lost, pretending to be okay with everything in my life that's hurting me so much....


    I love you, my knight in shinining armor. Thank you for saving me time and time again.

     
  15. Crumpet In your shadow, I can shine!

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    Dear Grandma~

    I didn't get to know you too well, I mean I never really saw you after I was six, but you are in the most vivid of my memories. I remember you always cooked my (still) favourite meal and make heaps so me and my brother would always come back for seconds and thirds so we can empty the pan. I'm starting to believe you we're doing that to fatten us up because we we're very skinny children (though that luckily only worked for my brother). Your smile was so warm, though your house was drafty, thank you for teaching me the wonders of a hair dryer.

    On the day you died, I learnt three things that day. I had the guy I liked over and I saw mum running into her room with the phone crying. Firstly, I learnt the guy I liked loved computer games more than he admitted to loving me. After I learnt you died, mum took us to her friends house for comfort. She knew that was probably the worst thing to do because the daughter was my ex-best friend, but I also learnt that enemies can be friends, even just for one day. Finally, I learnt that you made more of an impact on me than I take credit for. Your way of life, is pretty much my way of life now so I thank you.

    Miss you heaps

    Catherine