Remember happiness?

I do. At least, I did until an hour ago.
My grandpa passed away.

I'm not sure if I can accurately describe my feelings.
Pain? Check.
Moody? Check.
Depression? Check.

You might see me around, but then again you may not.
I don't know which yet. Depends on how I feel.

Blood of the Cascade I will finish. That's a promise to myself. More than likely it will be multiple chapters at once. I'm not sure what else to say here, but

**** 2009, 2010, 2011. And probably 2012.

 

Oh dear, I'm sorry to hear about your lost. I wouldn't be depressed or moody if I were you in any case. But it's harder than just me saying this, because I know your grandfather wouldn't want you to feel so down in the dirt. Hang in there kiddo. xxxx.

 

I wish that I could conjure up something magical, something to say that would warm you up, but unfortunately I am not good with situations of this sort. I cannot relate to feeling sad over a loss, but I assume that you feel discontentment. Not a pleasant state to be in. Cheer up.

Keep moving forward.

How cheesy, how corny. I apologize for my lack of empathy. What to say, what to say...

 

You have my deepest condolences. I know how you feel, I felt like this five years ago in June when my grandfather died a premature death. Let me just tell you, it's not good to wallow in this area of sadness for long, it'll run around with you everywhere.

Try to stay active, get work/things done, and find more to do. It won't be easy, but this'll pass. I'm not saying soon, it's different for everyone, and I'm also not saying to forget all about it - because things like these are hard to forget - but it will pass.

 

Sorry for your loss... Death can be a very hard thing to deal with. Both you and your family will be in my prayers

 

Ploo-Hems. :c Imagine the most snug, most comforting, most warm and fuzzy hug that has ever been hugged and then imagine me giving it to you.

I remember vividly severaly years ago when I found out that great-aunt died. She was like a grandma to me. She spoiled my sister and me like a grandma would. When she died, I could have sworn that I had lost a grandparent. And I felt really... not like me for a time afterwards.

Grief is good. You have to let it out. But don't let it take over. You know your grandpa would not want that. As Saxima said, still work on getting things done that you need to do. It's ok -- nay, it's good to be sad about it. But you have to work to get through it, and life will become less grim once you do.

<3

 

I'm very sorry for your loss.

All of what goes through your mind and all of your feelings are just as they are supposed to be. I have lost friends and family and it never gets easy. The feeling that something is missing will stay around for a while, and it might never go away. That's a good sign though, it means you cared about him very much. It's human to react the way you are reacting. Remember though, eventually it will get better. You start to think about the good memories, you see things that remind you of him, but it will feel good.

When someone dies, you mourn, which is exactly what humans do, we become depressed, we cry, we talk about it, we make music, we write books, poetry etc.
That's how it is. There is no escape from it. What you need to do is be with the people close to you, you don't even always have to talk, but if you feel like it, you can.

Grieve for a while. Talk to someone if you need to. Write if you need to. Everyone chooses to cope with struggles in their own way, you too. Maybe it's too soon to try coping with it, first it needs to sink in. You'll find your way. It's just a matter of time.

Once again, I'm very sorry for your loss.

 

Im really sorry for your loss,and I do mean it.
I know how hard losing a grandad is,and if you ever want anyone to talk to just say.

Keep your head up,and remember that its natuarl to feel sad and moody. xxxx

 

D'awr Plumb pie >:c. I'm sorry for your loss, it's never easy to lose anybody close to you. Again; I must apologize I'm not very good at comforting or these types of situations. The advice I can offer is basically what most above me have posted, keep moving forward it's normal to feel like you are don't try and dwell on the feelings of sadness too much I guess it can end up eating you up. If you need somebody to vent to or talk to, I'm just a pm away.

Sorry I couldn’t give better advice, I'm not very good at this type of stuff. I hope you feel better soon.

 

Take a shower, crash on the bed and try to take quick nap for a bit. A good lie-down might do some good. Clear yourself up a bit.


My condolences.