Relation ship problem.

Discussion in 'Help with Life' started by lil woj, Feb 4, 2010.

  1. lil woj Merlin's Housekeeper

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    Im currently dateing a 16 year old girl named nay smith i need some advice becuse weve been dateing for about 2 months but idk something feels a little off about it...its hard to explain i like her alot its just...idk if i should continue to date her or not cuz something feels off if u guys need a picture i can provide one of her.
     
  2. Xaale Sylph of Hope

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    Well what feels off about it? I mean if you love her truly it shouldn't feel off.
     
  3. KaiXIII Traverse Town Homebody

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    "Love" is a very strong word.

    Love means everything, means peace, means the best of the world. If you feel something's off then think, think about how u feel with her, how would u be without her, and why the hell something is not right. The only person who can know what's going on is you.
     
  4. MadDoctorMaddie I'm a doctor, not a custom title!

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    Is she causing the 'off'-feeling, or is that coming from an out-side factor? Because if it's from her, you just might not be ready for a serious relationship yet, even though you care about her a lot.
     
  5. Ars Nova Just a ghost.

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    Whatever feeling you're getting, if you think it might help to discuss it with her, don't hesitate. Relationships thrive on solid communication; she should be made aware of how you feel, especially if there's something she can do to help. If you describe it to her just as you describe it to us, that is, you feel a genuine attraction to her but something just doesn't seem right, she shouldn't have any real reason to doubt your sincerity.