This week (friday) I have promnight (well sorta, it's not organized by the school, there also doesn't have to be promclothing so it's more like an ordinary party) but still haven't got a date. I already asked two friends of mine but they already had plans. Now I'm kinda doubting whether or not I should go and if I would go if I would go alone or take someone with me or go to another party. These are the situations between I'm doubting: 1) A girl (let's call her A) who I've known for many years (for I think 10 years and had a big crush on her almost 6 years ago). I don't have those feelings anymore but still, I like being around her (although this doesn't happen anymore at all). With asking her out, I'd like to recover our lost friendship (she changed schools etc.) and again try to stay in touch with her. 2) A girl (let's call her B) with whom I kinda ended up in bed (just laying in bed, nothing more) when I had a little bit too much alcohol. It was on a trip with some friends and I didn't know her that well before that trip. We seemed to get along fine and on the last night I drank too many (not drunk but really tipsy, still knew what I was doing ... kinda) and well, she was just lying there next to me in bed (I suggested her to lay next to me and she did that without hesitating). Eventually putting my arms around her. The next day was kinda awkward since we both knew what happened the night before. The problems I have with this situation is that I don't know if I have/had feelings for her or that it was just the alcohol that took over there. Secondly I don't know whether she was drunk or not that night, I don't think so but I don't know for sure. Anyways, I don't want to like get into a relationship with anybody at the moment and well, don't wanna get her hopes up since she was trying to get my attention the day after the 'incident' f.e. she would always stand next to me or when she would take a seat, it would be a seat as close as possible to me, she would be laughing at all my jokes (good and bad ones) etc. Because of these things I kinda have a feeling she liked me. 3) Go alone to the prom and still have a good time with my friends from school. 4) Go to another party where alot of my other friends (one friend that I haven't seen for like a year and she asked me to go to that party for a while, I've known her since kindergarden) are and where one of the girls is that I originally asked to go to the prom with me (haven't seen her in like 2-3 months and I really wanna see her. I've known her for almost 2 years now and I'm reaally close to her). I hope this kinda explains the whole situation in a good way, if there are some things that're not clear please ask 'cause I wanted to keep it as short as possible. Thanks beforehand!
I'd say first go with option #1, since that seems like the one that you have the most emotional investment in. Not to say that you still have feelings for her or anything, but that you obviously were close at a time and there's nothing like old friends, right? If she's got plans or isn't comfortable going or anything, then... I'd say a mixture of #3 and #4, if possible. Transportation could be a problem if you haven't got a car, but if you go to Prom alone and find you aren't having fun, you could always party hop and go to the party in #4. I'm ruling out #2 because it just seems like she wants a relationship--or at least some sort of involvement--that you might not be comfortable with.
I rule out #2 as well. There are a few things that I can say that are wrong with it. I would probably go with either #1 or #4, since they seem like the best options if you want to not have a boring night, and #3 in case you just can't get up the courage to go out with some friends
