Ok, I'm annoyed and need to rant. =/

What the hell is up with teenage relationships? They're stupid. Do people really think they'll get somewhere with it? Sure, maybe some good and bad memories'll come out, but... I just don't get it. Why do people vest so much in them?

And why are people so quick to tell each other that they love each other? It should mean so much more to people to say that. They "relationship" is purely infatuation, or falling in love with the feeling OF love. not with the person.

And all this crap with teenage pregnancies. The only reason that you should ever sleep with someone is if you actually do truly love them. Not because you can't control your stupid urges or because it's "cool".

Now I know that maybe I'm just pmsing,, or cynical, or whatever. I know that that maybe some people in these teenage relationships actually DO love each other, but...

I'm just not so sure anymore.

I apologize if I've offended anyone. D:

 

People these days fear being alone, most cling to the first life form that shows them affection, in theory about .0001% of a teenage relationship would make it to marriage, 5% end in pregnancy, and the others have fun for awhile and end things, they say we grow up to try out new things, in reality we become teenagers and just constantly try out new people, no matter how oblivious it is to them it won't last, as long as people feel warmth and happiness for a little while they don't really care, it's just another rule of life.
Lonely hearts make for lonely people, warmth in one emits a smile on the owners face.

 

im there too DX, o wait i ended today HA
yeah honestly The Gatz is my first boyfriend well now hes my husband but any way, yeah i read that only 1%
of the world married a high school sweetheart

 

I agree with you, misty.There is just NO point in even TRYING to fall in love when you're a teenager, they just can't come to grips with the whole concept of 'love'. And yes, I am a teenager but I'm not asking anybody out and I reject everybody because I don't see the point.

 

Misty must've never been in love before. =o

 

TMI.. T.. M.. I. :3


Anyways, I agree with you there, Misty. True love prior to the age of 18 is pretty unexistant.

 

You're right on in my opinion, Misty. Sex has turned into a pleasure, not a sacred thing. Although it is a pleasure, it should be intended for that special someone and it will be even more pleasurable.

Also, teenagers go around telling everyone they are in love and will 'marry' this person. They have sex many times and then they break up a week later. Teenagers even start telling a person they love that person after the first date or even before they start dating.

I feel this way too, Misty.

 

I've seen both sides of the coin with teenage relationships, so i can see where you are coming from Misty.

Maybe just be growing up in Mormonville i've not seen alot of negative teenage relationships (unless you are non mormon and are trying to date someone who is and you get exhiled) 2 of my friends who were dating for 2 years during high school and 3 years after just tied the knot.

I think that they whole teenage pregnancy thing is kids trying to rebel against their parents because they feel that they either work too much and don't pay any attention to them or they feel it's more fun to do IT then deal with the by product. That's why I think kids are rebelling is to slap their parents in the face and say, ' well if you'd have been a better parent' or something.

 

Rarely does a teenager know what love is. I'm glad Misty is talking about this. She speaks the truth.

 

This is the type of thing I'd like to stay neutral for. Some relationships are just shallow one that have nothing more to it than the reflection you see at first glance, but some can actually be pretty deep. I've seen pros and cons, so I don't really have an opinion about it. Sorry <=\

 

Meh. Teenage love is just something to prepare you for a serious relationship in my opinion. If you start going out with different people and see what type of people you are attracted to, you'll have an easier time dating when your older. It's all really about experience to prepare you for the real world. If the person crushes your heart for such and such reason, it'll make you stronger and more prepared for if someone you like and have been going out with has dumped you.

So, yeah. It's all about preperation in my opinion and I have no problem with it so long as it doesn't get too deep in.

 

What happened to those other guys you dated here? D:

 

Good post, dude. Very good post.

 

I honeslty see where misty is coming from, BUT I am a cold hearted sadistic ******* who hates human contact and when hugged tends to remain stationary with my hands in my pocket as always, thinking "damn, I wish i had my headphones in, she's squishing them"

 

YAY!!!I hate hugs too.

 

No seriously, its not always a bad thing. If you like someone, you like someone. Its a gamble to keep staying with them, and definately a test in faith to see if you'd be with them even through adulthood, but its possible.
Its where the term "highschool sweethearts" comes from.

 

I'm in High School currently and I've been always hearing about these kind of relationships. I can say from my view that most teens believe that they have power and control over their actions and consequences. Of course, once they fall into the hole of doom, some will continue to do the same things over and over. I suppose it is to gain attention or something. It's natural for us to want attention, IMO. My school specifically has a lot of problems with some teens sleeping constantly and stuff like that. It's basically in the media too. People get influences from many different mediums and I suppose that's also what drives them to do things like that.

There's my thought on the matter. >.>;;

 

Well...
I dont care much for sex =3. I think that if you 'love' me, you can wait.
I'm a naturally sincere person, it took me two years to tell my boyfriend I loved him (he said it in a week.)
Also, I broke up with him because I didnt feel like he loved me the way I loved him. He's older then me, but he still seemed more immature when it came to that...
We arent together anymore, but for like...3 months he's been telling me he loves me..and he has a girlfriend. He just got tired of waiting for me.
Love?
Uh, I dont like saying I love dudes because usually its a fling.
I will NEVER get preggy! Not until I'm married and I know he wont ditch me!

 

wow, I know middle schoolers who already wanna be preggos.

well I think that relationships are all about skills of life...


in the REAL WORLD you have to know what you're doing these days. You have to
be able to except and move on. Young relationships help that. It's not stupid, it just
helps. but I dooo agree that the term "love" should be kept for something real, not
just that stupid little spark. it's apart of life to be attracted to people, and want them,
but no need to be that into it.

I've liked this guy for five years and I don't consider that I love him. I just really like
him. big diff. but y'know, I'm not a sissy or anything. I just don't think I'd be ready
to ask this guy out. I'll always be shy, but when you ask people to be with you, and
they reject you, believe it or not, that'll help you build confidence. when people break
up with you, that teaches you to SUCK IT THE FRICK UP.

I don't exactly want a relationship for myself, I guess I just want a guy to be there for
me, not 'technically' as a friend, but you catch my drift.

 

Lol. You don't like getting hugs from girls?