Nightmares...

Okay, so as of lately, I have been having nightmares for the past two weeks. It's been really worrying me because I have been waking up muplitle time in the middle of the night and screaming or sometimes crying. It's very werid and my Mom and siblings said that they hear me screaming and crying and throwing my self...Which i havent even noticed until they told me. And now i noticed that i have small brusies on my arms sometimes.


What should i do? All I remember in these nightmares are me drowing or falling...And im kinda scared? Is that wrong?

 

It's not wrong of you to be scared. Have you thought that maybe their might be a reason behind them?

 

Well, i tryed to think but they dont lead to anything..maybe losing my friends because in these dreams, theres always a hand there..

 

whose hand does it belong to?

 

I can't really see who it is really, but it differs from every dream, it would be a girls and a boys randomly. And i can vaugely see shadowy figures standing at the edge or shore.

 

what do you think it means?

 

I dont really know, maybe because were drifting apart...they cant help me? And i hear crying also...but that's werid.

 

Maybe they're trying to help you. But you have to make an effort to help too. Like a mirror broken in half, in order to put it back together, you need both pieces. Not just one.

 

Hmm, that makes total sense...but i think theres more to it then that.

 

Well, one of the "Friends" doesnt like me now, because he was making fun of me and i told him off, and now he's doing stuff on purpose now and making me feel like **** in front of groups of people..

 

then maybe he was never ur friend in the first place...

 

I would geuss so...but im making more progress with my friends lately...were laughing like we used too...^___^

 

that's great. :)

but if eveythings going back to normal, y r u still having those dreams?

 

Im kinda afraid it might happen again and leave alltogther...

 

You just need to tell yourself that it's only a dream. Not all dreams have meanings. Just keep telling yourself that none of it's real.

 

Dreams and Nightmares come from your sub-coinsous...they might and might not have meaning..but i think it does. I do tell myself that it's not real..but it doesnt help at all..

 

then ur gonna have to do better than that.

 

>.< But i really try, but i'll try again...

 

You've been a great help though ^__^

 

I'd say that you have the reason behind the nightmares since well, dreaming comes from the sub-conscience and is a way of dealing with things that have gone on about you.

You say that you lost a friend, he turned out to be a jerk to you. Though you are doing things with other friends, you fear that the same thing might happen again. In life, sadly, friends move on or go through changes, just as you do. The thing to do is to realize that you should enjoy your time with people around you and build up some great memories. There just comes a time when we must let people move on or we must do that so if you make the time special you have with the people around you and hold that as important, you perhaps won't cling to the fear that someday everyone will leave you or treat you poorly. Those who do treat you poorly...well it's just going to happen and it's best to not compare that person to others around you.

I hope you can find peace with your situation as at times we all get kind of screwed over by that wayward friend we put some trust in. Other friends won't do the same thing to you. Don't lose your trust in others because of one or two people out there who did not value your friendship. Some people are just either rotten or they've changed and aren't into the same things you are anymore. Good luck and hopefully the nightmares stop and you can work out some of this stuff in the waking world.