Well first off, thank you to everyone who helped me with my school problems, I came out with every class raised up 10% but for my parents, it wasnt good enough. so now here are the problems I'm having: 1. My parents took away my phone cuz I had 4007 texts for the month and they think its waaaaaayyyy too much. 2. me not having a phone caused me not to be able to talk to my friends. 3. My girlfriend has been rather standoffish lately, and it worries me... 4. My friends dont want to hang out as much and im just like: What da f? 5. Life is just depressing me right now, no phone, standoffish friends and GF causes me to be bored and I want to cry, but i seem to just not be able to cry... I practically feel no pain...
First off, I wouldn't worry about your cell phone. Believe it or not, you can live without it, the continuation of life is possible. If you're worried about it, you should talk to your girlfriend, maybe something's bothering her. As for your friends, well... If you have to, if it comes to that, just make other ones. I'm sure you feel some kind of pain somewhere, and there's no need to cry about it. (even if you say you cannot) Give it time, you're gonna be alright.
1. Your options are buying a phone, borrowing a phone or convincing your parents to give it back. Perhaps talk about the issue of money with the texts? 2. Talk to them via MSN or manually, face to face. 3. Talk to your girlfriend. The only way you're going to resolve anything is via communication, so find out what's wrong. 4. Perhaps your lack of contact means they can't hang out with you when they want to? 5. If there's no pain and your only problem is boredom, then pick up a hobby that your parents and friends won't interfere with. Graphic design on the computer, for example.
1. Honestly, if it's a money issue, you shouldn't be selfish. You have to consider that if you're gonna send so many texts and it's going to cost your parents money, you have to face the consequences. Maybe you should get a texting plan or get a job or something to pay for your own cell phone bill. 2. You can probably get at your friends in school and on facebook or something, too. 3. Talk to her about it then. Maybe she is having problems with you or the relationship or maybe just herself personally and isn't strong enough to bring it up to you herself. 4. Possibly it's your mood or something they're going through? I know it's harsh but I generally don't want to hang out with people who are miserable with themselves. If it gets to the point where nobody can help than I try to let them get over it themselves. Maybe your friends are feeling the vibe. I mean honestly, who would you rather hang out with someone upset or someone who is happy? It's kind of selfish but it's kind of just the way things go. I advise you to try to straighten things out one at a time and be happy with yourself again, because then more positive experiences will be attracting to you. 5. I feel like maybe you should talk to your parents about how isolated you feel. And then your girlfriend. And share stuff with friends then progressively start to feel better. I mean, that's just what I tend to do.
1. Last I checked, 4007 IS way too much. I'm sorry to tell you, but I think your parents were right to take away your phone. You're probably going to have to stop being dependent on texts for communication or else pay for an unlimited texting plan with your own money. 2. Again, you're too dependent on your cell phone. Try using a regular phone if your family has one, or use Facebook or some other social networking site to communicate. 3. It shouldn't worry you. Worst case scenario, she has bad news and loves you too much to tell you. 4. Maybe you should ask them to hang out. 5. Can't help you with that. Sorry.
>4007 texts Am I just out of the loop here or is that actually a lot of texting? At any rate, the best way to resolve these problems is to talk to the people involved. 99% of your issues can at least be identified by that alone, despite how hard it might seem. I'd really suggest picking up some hobbies/new interests and meeting more people that way. That has usually been a big 1-up, in my experience. As for the phone... life goes on. My phone's touch screen has been broken for over a year. Not a whole lot to do except deal with it. Today is the tomorrow you worried about, and all is well.
4007 texts, to be quite frank, is a motherflipping crapload of texts for one month. That would cost a heck of a lot on the phone bill, so you really can't blame your parents for taking your phone away. Unless you are willing to pay your own cellphone bill, of course. It seems a lot of your problems would be closer to be solved at least if not solved if you were to physically communicate with your girlfriend and your friends. Girls don't become standoff-ish for no reason; ask her what's wrong. It might be troubles at home, etc. She might like someone with whom to talk about it. MSN, although not as direct as talking face-to-face, is a better form of communication than texting. And it's free. So if you can, try to get a hold of her on that at least. As for your friends, they may just be finding it harder to get a hold of you since your cell was taken away. Or heck, maybe they've just been busy lately. However, you should confront them about it if you feel they are purposefully excluding you.
Yeah thats alot of texting but dont let it bother you, you should just walk up to your friends and talk to them. For future reference you could ask your friends to get skype since its free and you can send messages and talk.
4007 isn't that much in terms of communic8ion. I imagine I send around that many messages on MSN each month. Really, the concern is whether he's paying for the texts, or his parents are. If he's the one shelling out, then I don't think it should really matter how many he sends, provided it is not impacting negatively on his school-work.
1: I am sure they have a good reason behind this. They are probably doing what is best for you. 2: It is really important to have a face to face connection with your friends. If you hang out with your friends less then you text them, then just hang out with them more making texting them pointless. 3: Give her time then just talk to her. Don't be pushy though. 4: Your friends have lives to. They can't hang out with you all the time. This doesn't mean that they aren't friends with you it simply just means they are busy. 5: You are taking all of these things to heart a little to much.
1. Why do I get the idea that you don't pay your own phone bill? 2. There's still MSN, Facebook and oh, I don't know...real life? 3. That realy isn't much to go by. Smell the roses, ask her up straight and figure out exactly what the problem is. 4. Again, not much for us to go by. Perhaps their interests have changed in general. Find out what they're into lately, why they don't want to hang out, and then act accordingly or ask appropriate advice. 5. Careful what you wish for or you just might get it.
