hey there, as some of you may or may not remember me going on about this girl that i liked, turned out she was trying to use me, and she did a few things to show she wasnt the right girl, including possible drug use. well it seems ive found a couple new possibilities of people i know and i wanted to get your opinions of who would be a good person im not putting any physical qualities (like hair color, eye color, size etc.) since that doesnt matter to me, i like them for their qualities, not what they look like (that and they all are skinny with long hair so similar physical looks, apart from face) Girl A ~A year younger than me ~met this year ~very petite sized (but not anorexic or scrawny, just small) ~shows a lot of interest in me ~tells me personal things (nothing too personal though) ~Dont know many of her friends ~very smart Girl B ~Same age as me ~Met last year ~Best friends with Girl C ~Havent really talked to them much ~friends with a couple of my friends Girl C ~Known since grade school ~actress/singer ~havent talked to very much this year ~used to believe she liked me ~very talkative Girl D ~My juliet girl (I like her, but she doesnt know me) ~my parents and her parents are family friends ~her parents love me and think we would be perfect for each other, almost to the level of trying to get us to meet up and have me ask her out ~apparently has a boyfriend... not sure how long though just wanted to get everyone's imput on who they think is the right girl for me... thanks to all serious responses
In my opinion you should wait for girl D for a little while and see if things start to get rocky in her relationship, if they do then you may want to take that chance and ask her out when she breaks up with her bf. If you don't want to do this go for girl A or B. Be careful with girl B though, because if you mess up with her, then the chance/friendship with girl C will also be ruined since she doesn't seem to pay any attention to you anyway. So all in all, I'd go for girl A for now(just be a friend to girl D if she breaks up with her bf) Hope this helps, i'm not the best adice giver but I do my best. Good luck
My opinion girl D or A, Girl A sounds like a really great girl to be around and Girl D has known you for a long time and even her parents think it's a good idea (but you would have to find out if her other boyfriend is just a romer or not)
You know, it's never killed anyone not to have a girlfriend. Warning you beforehand that desperation is a major turn-off.
^This Maybe you should hold off on your feelings for a little while. I mean, when your growing up, you already have a ton of problems (grades, extra curriculars, family) you really shouldn't add to that by trying to get a girlfriend. That just asking for drama and before you know it you'll be posting in "Help with Life" again trying to figure how to find a solution to a problem that didn't need to be created. Besides, if you're a good guy, then a girlfriend will come to you. You don't have to go around trying to find one. and maybe you don't get a girlfriend in high school. A lot of my friends in college (not from my own personal experience) say that you should hold off on dating until college because dating in high school is a waste of time.
Go for girl A, you she's smart, takes interest in you, and is comfortable discussing personal details with you. This merely my opinion though, whoever you pick, I hope it works out for the best.
If it was me trust me I wouldnt ask...I'd just know which girl was right whenever I see her...love at first sight kind of thing...Surely theres one youd like more than the others?
