My brother.

Discussion in 'Help with Life' started by TacoGrenade, Jan 3, 2009.

  1. TacoGrenade King's Apprentice

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    Just had to get this out. My brother is 17 years old, a smoker, former drug dealer, been to rehab 4 times, got kicked out of two rehab centers, went to jail several times, has several tatoos, and is a total ass. He's been in so many fights with me and my parents I've lost count. He's broken walls, doors, possesions, he's stolen alchohal and other things from my parents, the list goes on. It all wouldn't all be so bad since by now he's at least stopped all the drug dealing and such. But he's just an idiot and a bully. He starts arguments over the dumbest things. Just the other day me, him, and my dad went to burger king after seeing 007 quantum of solace (which by the way is a great movie.) And I sit down and start eating and when he comes back with the sodas he says to move so he can sit there so I figure whatever so I took my burger and sauce and I start moving and he says to give back the sauce. I tell him it's mine and he starts arguing with me over it. My dad tries to break it up and so my brother starts making a huge deal out of it and as usual tries to blame me. Finally we all just shut up and I grabbed my fires which he again says are his even though I was clearly eating them. Then when my dad goes to the bathroom he starts throwing fries at me. It's not somehting I can't deal with but he acts like a 6 year old. I'm just awaiting his turning 18. He's always ruined this family. Even when he was a little kid he was always begging for attention. It's just horrible the way he can ruin our lives. He's torn our lives apart.
     
  2. sinister King's Apprentice

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    has it always been like this?
    was he different in any way before?
    it could be a traumatasing experience or something which changed him...or a sort of pshycological torment....
     
  3. Rayku Kingdom Keeper

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    Well, like heart of darkness said, He could be doing that because something might of happen to him that makes him want to beg for the attention.
     
  4. khcrazy101 Gummi Ship Junkie

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    the same thing is happening to my aunt. we are trying to help her but nothing seems to work
     
  5. Misty gimme kiss

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    Honestly, you've just got to wait it out. He obviously has issues, and he's going to do what he's going to do.
     
  6. Time Moogle Assistant

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    He'll have to learn the hard way unfortunately. There's nothing you can really do unfortunately