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  1. woodstockfootball26 Traverse Town Homebody

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    So theres this amazing girl i like. And she acts like she likes me to, but unfortunatdely we dont ever know what to talk about.

    For instance im walking to 3rd period and she comes up and says hey Zack and im like hey Victoria. Than theres an akward silence until we get to 3rd period.

    What i need to know is what do girls like guys to talk about with them. She likes soccer and tennis.

    Thanks for the help : )
     
  2. Boy Wonder Dark Phoenix in Training

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    Talk about soccer and tennis.
    And actually talk. Ask her questions, listen to what she says, etc.
     
  3. woodstockfootball26 Traverse Town Homebody

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    Thats the problem idk anything about soccer or tennis. I dont know what to ask.
     
  4. Luna Lovegood nani panda-kun

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    If she's on a school team, ask her how her last game went. Something like that.
     
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    Tell her you'd like her to explain soccer and tennis to you. Act interested, ask her questions throughout.
     
  6. woodstockfootball26 Traverse Town Homebody

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    ok thnx
    Thank you so much Now can you guys answer the first part.
     
  7. Korra my other car is a polar bear dog

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    ...Aren't you with someone already? :\

    Anyway.
    As the others said, talk to her. Bring up a topic and go for it.
     
  8. woodstockfootball26 Traverse Town Homebody

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    no and thnx your a lady right well what do you guys likf us to talk about.
     
  9. Korra my other car is a polar bear dog

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    Your signature says otherwise.
    Then again you go through "girlfriends" like tissues, so...

    You're not my type at all in any way, shape, or form, so I honestly can't help you with that.
     
  10. Luna Lovegood nani panda-kun

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    It depends on the person, really. We all have different interests; we like to talk about different things. You just gotta give it a shot and find out for yourself what she's interested in.
     
  11. Jayn

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    I like funny guys. Guys who make me laugh, sweet guys who give compliments (but subtle ones) and who seem genuinely interested.

    I also like guys who treat me like I'm special. The guy I like right now does the silliest thing, he gives me erasers randomly that he draws on and I give him ones too. XD We exchange erasers daily. The thing is, I'm the only one he's so silly with and I'm the only one he gives erasers to, so it makes me feel special. :3

    When talking to a girl, just ask casual things. "Hey, how are you?" Then listen respectfully and ask questions to be engaged. Or ask about movies or songs. For example, "Have you seen Transformers? I loved that movie. What did you think?" Then listen to her while she answers. If she hasn't seen the movie or heard the song then you can simply ask her what kind of movies or music she likes.

    Just seem interested, pay attention, listen, flirt subtly, compliment and don't talk to much about yourself. (It's annoying).

    Hope that helped.
     
  12. woodstockfootball26 Traverse Town Homebody

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    DPWolf: I changed im done being like that.I didnt even ask you. And our relationship ended i just havent changed my sig. 2. Thanks SB for all the help. Ill try all of this you guys thanks.