Work is still a ***** for me, the bosses are nice enough, but two of the co-workers are still making my life hell. One is making me do all her work for her when she can get away from it, and the other is downright mean to me and says derogatory things in my face and behind my back and I can't do anything about it because I already complained once when he was worse to my boss. Home is getting a lot worse, I was thrilled when I got my first raise ever, and my mom was like: "Well, hopefully that won't knock you off your health insurance." She wasn't even happy for me, and now I have to pay her less because the taxes are going to skyrocket next year if I don't. That lead to a massive fight between me and her about money where she said I couldn't do it in real life and I would have to: "suck it up". Even though I'm honestly trying to help her with everything. Now I'm looking for a different job, and she's pissed about that because I found a job that would cover my insurance, be a great opportunity, and pay wonderfully. We got into another fight about it where she said I was like my dad and I was delusional about my dreams because I told her what I'd like some day if I had the money. I've tried to talk to her about it, but she never listens. She either gets mean, rude or just never listens to me at all anymore. That's if she's not on the phone with her sister or mother. I cried at work today because I was so upset. I just don't know what to do.
Well... this is a tough one... As for the first thing... I know you've already tried it, but if your bosses are nice enough, then all I can say is to try complaining again... :/ As for your mum... All I can suggest is have it out with her, stand up for yourself and don't back down, if she sees how serious you are... then she may back down. If not and she is still acting like... (forgive me for saying it)... a b*tch... then just cut her out of your life, I've done this once, the freeze method (ignore everything she says and does, don't accept any help from her, and don't give her any help), she will soon realise how much she misses you etc... At least, that's how it worked for me... Until then, all I can offer is a supportive hug... :/ Spoiler
