KHV my best friend is possibly pregnant

KHV,
I really really need your help on this, my best friend is possibly pregnant and I all I know is that she didn't do it but she and her bf were rolling around and his stuff may have gotten inside her and she's freaking out,she's only 15 years old and she refuses to tell her parents and her so called bf keeps freaking her out and to make matters worse she keeps stressing herself out! I know I shouldn't get involved but she was the for me when my mom died and even though it's going on my shoulders I don't care about that, it's just that well should she get a pregnancy test? You know just In case? She said that she's willingy to do it but her parents are very strict also how many test should you take to be sure?

KHV I don't know what to do! My best friend might be pregnant and I'm on the edge of tears she told me not to tell anyone she knows so...and I can't exactly go to my stepmom or grandma about this! They'd tell her parents! KHV what do I do? This is no Effing joke and I am so upset about it....please...I'm only 17 and I know I sound like a baby but I really need help on what to do! Please! And thank you!
This is for real, I need help KHV, and I go to you for help so please help me.

 

She should get a pregancy test. If it turns out she is pregnant, she has to tell someone. She can't keep it secret forever you know. And it's still something she should talk about with a responsible adult, counseling from your best friend's online friends isn't exactly the most reliable way to deal with this. kind of problem.

 

she should take a test...and even if she doesnt want er parents to know...In a few months im pretty sure they'd find out, or if she doesn't want to have the baby she could always get an abortion

 

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Unless the guy physically ejaculates inside of her, it's more than likely that she is not pregnant. Really it depends on how far this "rolling around" went, but if he had at least had his pants on and he didn't actually stick it in her, I doubt she could have gotten pregnant.

Still, it's always better to know. Obviously if she gets her period things are fine, but she should take a pregnancy test... though I believe you have to wait about 2 weeks for the test to be accurate. In any event, in might be smarter for her to simply not tell her parents, having them react to this and it all ending up to be no big deal wouldn't be great.

Still, if your friend and her boyfriend are getting close to having sex and they now are going through a pregnancy scare, you should advise them to get some birth control.

 

I'd advise against birth control and abortion. I know a woman (aged around 30) that got an abortion at around 17 and is still depressed over it. As I've observed in that lady, not only does it lead to the death of a human life, it also leads to chronic guilt and mental instability on the part of the would be mother. The would-be father (who is now married to the lady) also still suffers a great amount of guilt over allowing her to get the abortion.

As for birth control, it prevents the creation of life altogether. The only birth control that I condone is lack of "real" sexual activity.

 

I was by no means recommending abortion, but if she is going to make the decision to be sexually active she needs to go out and get some birth control pills/condoms. Getting an abortion is a big deal and there are still huge consequences, if anything if Mandy's friend was pregnant I would recommend adoption.

Abstinence obviously is the best method of preventing pregnancy and STDs, but it's unrealistic in today's day and age.

 

Birth control is a woman's choice, you don't even have to be sexually active to choose to use it. Plus there's still a slight chance that pregnancy still occurs.

But like Misty said, it depends how far "rolling around" went. Unless clothes were missing...it's not likely, though it may be better to play on the safe side and get a pregnancy test just in case.

 

What does 'roll around' mean, exactly?

 

Umm some adult things actually ^^" and well tbh i think she should get an pregnancy test and well if the results are positive then i think the best thing would be to tell her parents since i dont think she can hide it from them forever and even if they find out themselves later then there would be more chaos so i think tell her parents about it would be the best things,since i think they are mature enough to handle the situation and chances are two things might happen.
1.They would ask the boy to marry her when she grows up a bit(which i doubt it would happen considering how the guys are acting now a days)

OR

2.They would tell her to get an abortion but its really up to the girl to decide what she can do best for her current situations