Almost a year ago this girl, who was supposed to be my best friend, never talked to me online and every time I would call she wouldn't answer. I left voicemails, etc. So, I just kinda gave up on the friendship because I don't really want to waste time on people who don't seem to care about me. A few months ago I was doing a Facebook friend purge and deleted her. This was after I found out that she told a bunch of people that I have PTSD, which I told her not to tell anyone. No time for people who betray me like that. I saw her this past weekend and told her I would have to add her back because we didn't talk and she never returned my calls. I got a message later that she was super offended and hurt that I deleted her because we were "best friends". She put all the blame on me and said she found it hard to believe I tried in the friendship. She also told me she didn't tell anyone about the PTSD, which I know for a fact she did. I find out she made a huge post about the whole thing on Facebook and just whined about how she apparently can't be a good friend. Basically she just always has to be the victim. Also pretty sure she has told several people about the situation and people are now calling me a *****. Fantastic. I've known for a while that she is the type that always has to be the victim, but it just gets to me that I know she is going around bad talking me. I even did the "bigger person" thing where I texted her and said there were misunderstandings blah blah blah. I just want to have fun and cosplay and play dress up with my friends but I'm afraid that she is going around telling people I'm awful. tl;dr I need better friends.
