I've lost convidence in talking to men... ; ;

At noon my dad dragged me out of bed and said he was taking me out to lunch sence my mom and brother were at work. We got to the restruant and we sit there waiting for a waitress. I hear "What would you like to drink" and it was a guys voice. I don't have good social skills and its worse when I talk to a guy ; ;. My dad said he would have ice tea. He look at me at and asked me what I wanted. I just started at him with air coming out of my mouth. It was like 15 seconds befor I said ill have ice tea as well. I dont like drinking ice tea early in the day cause it gets me sick ; ;. The next thing you know the guy comes with our drinks and I have to look down ; ;.

Now I regret drinking the ice tea because now I dont feel well and im seriously embarrsed. This is the worst incoutner ive had with a guy yet ; ; I will no longer talk to men ; ;​

 

Wow. Just wow. You really need to work on that.

 

That .

 

...why are you so shy around men?

 

You think I don't know that -.-

Dont be hatin! D:

I honestly have no idea =/ I wish I knew lol. I just need to learn to be more social XD

 

I recommend... Nurturing your ego a bit. Not to my level, but you need to care more about your own satisfaction than what others think. No regrets...

 

You need a serious boost of self-confidence. I'm not saying talking to boys/men is as easy as breathing (for some it is), but honestly there's no good reason you should shy away from the fact.

 

You spelled confidence wrong.

 

Those of the species homo sapiens sapiens are indeed homo sapiens sapiens.

 

I could give some serious advice here, but as it's the Spamzone, I think I'll point out that you misuse apostrophes three times in your signature.

 

You can talk to me if it makes you feel any better...

JK!

I'm sorry, I have a gf.

 

Talking≠cheating.

 

Besides, Te Deum, whatever made you think they equaled in the first place?

Unless it's the structure of the sentence you used...

 

Are you addressing me, or Te Deum?

 

I think he was referring to the former satanist cult.
:lolface:

 

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Shut up!!!!!!!!! Don't even REMIND me of that!!!!!!!!!!

 

I'm the same way with girls. I can talk to them really easy but when it comes to actually asking them for their number I'm awful. I met a girl today at a Yugioh tournament and she was TOTALLY into me and we were talking for a while but i could not ask her for her number even though i really wanted to.

 

Try playing Persona 3 and 4. They have a social link system that could help build your confidence.

 

Since today is "International SpamZone Srsbusiness Day";

It all just boils down to confidence.
Every morning or night before you go to bed, tell yourself something along the lines of "Hey, you know, I'm actually pretty amazing. I'm comfortable in who I am, I like my interests, and if anyone says anything otherwise, pfft, **** them. I'll probably see them working the corner later today, anyway."

Just convince yourself, even if you don't believe it at first, you're a good person. Then confidence will be born and the rest will follow. :3

 

I just don't give a damn what people think about me. I'm that awesome.