I'm so sad right now.I can't stop crying.This year was just...Ug. I lost 3 ppl in my family 2 i cared for the last one died today and i did't know her that much and my mom and dad won't stop fighting and ppl hate me and..I just feel like i have no more hope.. I startd thinking about cuting myself and i tell ppl not to...Piz help tell me what to do.
I'm sorry to hear about your losses -- my condolences. The best thing to do now is just talk with friends and family members you trust, and you'll gradually start feeling better.
I'm greatly sorry to hear this, I too have lost people I care about, I lost my dad and my uncle, my dad died last year, it was hard not having him for my Ring Ceremony and my Graduation and my Birthday/Graduation/Confirmation party, he will miss out on lots of stuff, but what you gotta remember is the people you love that are no longer here are looking down on you and they are indeed smiling, so don't keep your head down, keep your head up my friend!
I'm sad that you feel that way. But remember, you have your family that loves you, and you got friends here that you can talk to, and we don't hate on other people. I've lost people I LOVED too. It hurts, and you feel like the pain will never go away. But, in the end, as long as you have life in you, you'll always find a way to move on, and be happy.
I lost my grandpa this past April, so I know what it feels like. But you just have to remember that your family members would not want to see you broken apart. It's really hard. To this day I still get choked up whenever I go to my Grandma's and just see his chair...empty, like that. But you have to think about the people who filled those seats, and what they would want for you to do; which is to keep living life to the fullest. As for the cutting, please don't do that. I'd say that you should talk to your parents to let them know how you feel, and if that doesn't work talk to an aunt/uncle/cousin you trust. And it's not because they hate you. I'm sure no one there does, and I know no one here does. You are just as valued a member of this community as the rest of us. Your parents are more than likely stressed about the tragedies this past year, and maybe just need to vent a little while. If it doesn't get better, talk to them or a family member, or even a counselor/psychologist. I'm really sorry to hear that you are going through this, and I hope you and your family will be okay. Grief is a long and hard process, but you can make it through eventually if you just keep living.
sorry for your loses. I lost my Grandpa a few years ago, although I didn't feel too sad when he left. Maybe because I hardly saw him, I don't know, I don't get upset for a lot of thing. But I think the best you can do is just talk with some friends and family, except your mom and dad if their fighting like that, and just try to get through this the best you can
You ppl think i have friend out side Internet>.> i can't talk to my family cuz they all will just go to my mom or dad and tell them what i said I have nobody but thanks for trying to help
well, talking with friends doesn't necissarily mean offline. There's online as well, meaning here and other places you go
Just because people hate you, doesn't mean everyone hates you. Once someone - just one person - starts to not like you doesn't mean that everyone is jumping on that train, try to remember that. About the people you've lost, you have my condolences. I know how hard it is to lose someone you love, but nothing can be done to change it. Just remember them as they were when they were happy. c: About cutting yourself, dude, don't do it. It's so not worth the scars that you have to look at later on in life and I should know because I look at the ones I have every day and remember every reason for every cut. It just brings nothing but pain and bad memories, you should keep that in mind. There's always hope, you just have to keep your head up and try to see past everything bad that's happened. I know that's easier said than done, but you've got to try - and it probably will get a bit worse before it gets any better, so brace yourself. Your life can't start being a tragedy right now, you're way too young. Try not to make it out more than it already is because you're just gonna make it harder on yourself.
Initial talking doesn't always work and can make it worse. The sorrow people feel is there for a reason. Get past that first until then there is nothing much you can do.
I've lost two close family members, one of them in a very untimely manner, and all I can say is that it gets better with time. For me it was just waves of pain, it'd come and go, after a while the waves get further and further apart and less powerful. There will always be that hurt of "this person isn't here anymore and I can't do anything about it," but all you can do is keep their memory alive. If you are feeling depressed and have no one to talk to in real life, I and I'm sure many others here are always willing to listen. Sometimes all you need is to vent. If you can, escalating things to a professional is probably the best option, but if it's not possible then make use of the people here.
